My boyfriend of almost 3 years has told me that I should work on seduction. How do I go about doing this?? Seems like it would be hard since I already know that he is going home with me....I told him he should be more seductive to, haven't go a response to that yet. Any ideas on seduction after 3 yrs???
2006-09-29 01:43:03 · 21 answers · asked by Kristy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely. You can totally be seductive. Don't worry about getting him to come home. Worry about firing him up when you get there, or before. Be racy, be sexual, be uninhibitted. Kiss him passionately, grab his bits and pieces when do one is looking. Surprise him at the door when he gets home and go straight for the goods like you've been starving for it for weeks. Wear a sexy outfit. Dance like a stripper for him. Act like a sl*t (for him). Just because you act like one in the bedroom doesn't change who you. So let loose and show him a wild time.
2006-09-29 01:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by largegrasseatingmonster 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Yay for constructive, i for my area think of girls that are actually not perfect 10's could be seductive. What makes a woman seductive, is being her self, listens , great smelling, romantic temper, making use of physique language.
2016-10-15 08:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have already throw in the towel! I have said this a 1000 times, lovemaking doesn't start in the bedroom it starts way before that! Never stop flirting that means if your 16 or 100! I still write notes and send text messeges out of the blue and say sexy things, and it works! I'm 46 and my boyfriend is 45 and we have an amazing love life! Try it, you'll like it!
2006-09-29 01:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with Largegrass. Have you ever heard the phrase, "Be a woman in public, but a freak in private"? Use that to your advantage. I agree with putting on a sexy outfit for him but try doing the old "Pretty Woman" move. Lay on a bed, sit in a chair or whatever, wearing nothing but a smile and when he steps in the door from a hard day's work, say "How's your day?" I GUARANTEE you, whatever his day was like, won't matter once he sees you! :-) Hope this helps.
2006-09-29 02:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by kpcoco0870 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my husband is totally addicted to seduction, and like you I had no idea what he meant, but then it occured to me..... I spent the whole day walking around the house with a low cut top on, I would bend to pick something up and he would get a peep, i would act like i didnt notice he was looking etc etc, the whole day the flirtation went on, then before bed i asked if he wanted a massage, he turned onto his stomach and there i was massaging him, and every now and then my hands would slip, then I would move them away, it kept going until i dont think he could take it anymore and i started kissing his neck...one thing led to another and there we were.......and his exact words were "you have seduced me!" my job was done!
2006-09-29 01:51:38 · answer #5 · answered by lavidamasespecial1 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
what you need to learn is the art of the teases. my wife after 8 year is started learn how to do it .. one of the game she made up is how may way can she get a Bonner out of me. her next game is soft kisses and then runs away back to doing her work. this is seductive.. even one night she and i where having a bad day and she taped my mouth shut and throw me on the bad and blow my brains out with the best ******** ever.. so i hope this can help
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2006-09-29 01:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Tell him seduction is related to desire.If he wants you to be more seductive,he needs to give you a reason to want to be.
2006-09-29 01:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Kind of a vague statement by your boyfriend. Maybe he is trying to tell you that spicing things up is in order. Try some role playing,and see how he responds.
2006-09-29 01:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
seduction is simple really, its candle lite, soft music and you in a very sexy teddy like get up.
Dance for him to the music, keep eye contact and get closer as you dance, once u get to him, keep the touches lite and drop kisses where ever you touch
Go with the flow from there my dear
2006-09-29 01:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by koleebear 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋