spoke to a Muslim who said most Muslim women don't have sex till married?

Question

if this is true does it apply to the men as well,and immagine what a crap wedding night they must have.supposed to be the best night of your life and its all no dont put it there ,a little higher,not so hard,thats my bum.

thanks for your answers but how can the most natural thing in the world be withheld until marriage just doesnt seem right to me.were the first people on earth married.no i think not i mean who would of married them.such a cruel religion i think.

purity please explain the barbarric stonings.they are living with a 2000 year old mindset.get life.u r missing so much........and i in turn feel sorry 4 u.

Answer 1

If that's true, I know a lot of Muslim girls who are going to be smited by Allah..

Answer 2

Biker loopy is nice. I doubt the households of both the Muslim, Sikh or Hindu will like it and it ought to take a lengthy time period for them to settle for it. If a muslim lady marries a non muslim then any toddlers only isn't born muslim, again the households or the communities would no longer like it in spite of the indisputable fact that the element is in both those situations its somewhat as a lot because the guy on the top of the day, no longer their households.

Answer 3

Yes, Muslims, women AND men do not have sex until marriage.

We don't need to practice to get perfect like you do mate.

Ofcourse there are the sinful few who will answer to Allah. But on the whole, Muslims remain chaste and honorable.

EDIT: Islam says that sex is indeed natural but the only way to do it is through the security of marriage, which protects women and the offspring.

Let me know if you find any Muslims in the Singles section worried about not losing their virginity at 14 or babies at 12.

Answer 4

haha

Yeah, both the men & women are to remain virgins until they are married. With all the STIs in the world don't you think that's good? Being healthy is definitely important.

I know some ppl may disagree with me on this but it's a matter of self-respect too, especially for women. Any honest guy, whether he is Muslim or not, will tell you that he respects a girl who knows how to take care of herself.

Answer 5

This is the same for most faiths I know inlulding Christianity and Judaism.

Get your facts striaght and your hatred out of the window.

And maybe be a bit mor eproactive by learning stuff beforehand attempting such a stupid question which has be asked many a time before.

Answer 6

this goes for both,,men and woman.....there is much respect for being a virgin when married.. i see nothing wrong with it..I'm sure everyone will figure out what is going on when the time comes..
before marriage they do have some counseling so they know what to expect...

Answer 7

Yes that is true. Adultery is a sin in Islam for both men and women equally. Do you think that having sex before marriage makes you experienced??? If so, you've never been more wrong. there are other ways to gain knowledge...sleeping around doesnt make women better, there is a word for them..oh yea, WHORES!!!

Answer 8

i think pre-marital and extra-marital affairs are STRICTLY FORBIDDEN AND PROHIBITED in ALL religions, isnt it?

EDIT: there is a difference between marraige and just casual sex, isnt there?. just imagine the plight of those little girls who are forced by peer pressure to sleep by 13/14 yrs or they are considered "uncool" and dealt with sarcasm. now isnt that supposed to be disgusting & cruel?. also what if the girl gets along with a wrong person?. that would make her life a living hell. may be u should watch some WOMEN BASED - TV/TALK SHOW, to see how many women will give testimony to this. also what if the girl gets along with someone with a DISEASE, then?.

also there is a difference between the pleasure one's body feels and the pleasure one would feel from within their soul. one can have as many sexual encounters, but they may still leave an empty and hollow feeling and at the end of the day -- one may feel lonely. but when u have it with the one who is exclusively meant for u, then that pleasure (FEELING OF TRUE LOVE) will be completely different. also LOVE IS MUCH MORE THAN SEX, LOVE is A FEELING and it is this feeling that gives a warm glow within us, rather than sex. i dont say sex isnt important -- but sex IS NOT EVERYTHING IN THE WORLD, LOVE IS.

EDIT: actually stoning is not a punsihment for ADULTARY in Islam, it was 100 lashes (NOT UNTIL DEATH) followed by ZAKAH(CHARITY) AND FASTING. and even this was in case of RAPE AND ADULTARY. MAYBE THIS WILL HELP U,
http://www.boloji.com/opinion/0046.htm

how did stoning -- which was Pre-Islamic Law -- came into Islam? it comes from here --The most accepted collection of Hadith Sahih al Bukhari has 4 entries under 3829, 8804, 8805 and 8824 which refer to stoning by death. The case under 4829 involved Jews who were stoned to death in accordance with the Law of the Torah. 8805 says: "A married man from the tribe of Bani Aslam who had committed illegal sexual intercourse and bore witnesses four times against himself was ordered by the Prophet (s.a.s.) to be stoned to death".
here u can clearly see that the people IN QUESTION WERE JEWS and it was aLAW OF TORAH TO BE STONED TO DEATH NOT OF ISLAM. when they asked prophet Muhammed-pbuh, he said FOLLOW THE LAW OF TORAH, but YEARS LATER MUSLIM MEN incorporated this as a rule in Islam. so who should be blamed? Islam, Allah, Qu'ran, Muhammed-pbuh or the stupid followers?

to add to ur surprise, this morning in Oprah Winfrey , they showed about all of the pre/extra-marital affairs and how it lead to destruction of families. also they showed how a couple was jailed, for bringing a stripper so that their son and his freinds could have some fun. they both serve jail and are confined to house arrest after their release and followed by Community development. so what would u say about thuis Govt which is imposing its rule. should the Govt and its law be thrown or insulted? or should we obey it?

I NEVER SUPPORT anything -- be it killing , stoning or lashing or electric canes/chair, house arrests or transforming prisoners to guinea pigs for medical experiments -- for i beleive that we all may escape the eyes of man and man-made laws, but not the Eyes of God.

Answer 9

and your saying that with mockery i don't know who should be mocking me or you...i really feel sorry for you...because you didn't taste the meanings of dignity and uprightness...
oh yeah,what a cruel religion...
it protects the community from corruption,
it protects women "specially" from being used by men,
it protects us from diseases,
it protect alot of children from being born without knowing their fathers because they were training then they leave their moms and married another woman,
it discerns us from animals,
it protects alot of children from being killed by their moms (abortion)when their fathers change their minds and leave them and renounced their children(nothing official to obligate him to take care of his child),
look at all this cruelty..
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Answer 10

it applies to both men and women and there are severe punishments for those who violate it