Ok my bf had hard times at a certain period , he lost his job and did poorly at school and had no family support.. So I was the one who called and text for about two months, waiting patiently till he finds a job and pays his car loans and bills..etc..
Problem is he finally got his first monthly paycheck, he recharged his phone and texted me a few messages tyhe first day, the next day a couple, the third day one mesage only, and never called me.. By the way it's a long distance relationship so you can imagine how expansive cals and txting are, but that never stopped me from keeping our relationship up
So is it miserliness or lack of attention that makes him so careless? Or what ? cauz now I know he could call , and i know he loves me , then why is he acting this way?
He thinks I am granted now how can i make him stand on his toes again ?
Help ! :(
2006-09-29 01:29:42 · 5 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of him. He's an opportunist.
Why would you want to even waste time or emotional energy trying to make him do anything except be gone?
2006-09-29 01:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are really intelligent must have got message indirectly that he is not intrested to continue with you and in no mood to repay your kindness and timely assistance to him during his rainy days . I strongly feel that you should now leave him alone and take rest for a while and find real love , later on.
2006-09-29 08:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase theres no physical contact and because a relationship is also based on seeing each other almost on a daliy bases. and the rason why hes doing this is probably because hes trying to build up more money.
2006-09-29 08:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by DaRkANgeL 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has someone else
2006-09-29 08:32:09 · answer #4 · answered by pink_kitty115 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him
2006-09-29 08:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋