Put it another way, what is your opinion on DUMPING your partner when you learn, on close examination, he/she has bad breath?
You may extend the argument to include natural body odors, pubic hair, pimples in face, something that you NEVER wanted in your partner. Are you ready to forget your major dislikes if he/she is worth other things that also matter?
2006-09-29 01:17:47 · 25 answers · asked by quilm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a good question. We all have so called odors about us as human beings. Natural odors that are not unpleasant to each other but some others are. Hygiene is an important issue when trying to be intimate when you love someone. I would think that the person involved would want to know if there is an actual issue and try to correct it. I wouldn't think anyone would want to offend another,especially one you love and does not intentionally nor is aware of such an issue. There could be a reason for it who knows. But wouldn't it be worth while to find out when love is involved and obviously are important enough to be in love with? You need to take another look at this or give up the so called love and move on....
2006-09-29 01:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by silhouette 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First I would say when you love someone you love everything about them. If you are trying to change them, then you love them for what you want to change them to be/act/dress/look and so on. That is not love!
If your girlfriend haves bad breath politely talk to her about it. There could be something medically wrong if she brushes her teeth regularly and uses mouth wash and flosses. If she haves a body odor, talk to her about it. Or you could suggest you and her taking showers together. If she haves pubic hair get over cause it's her body and you are only allowed to suggest if she shaves it or trim it. It is up to her! If she haves pimples deal with it cause its life. You can suggest she try a product to try to clear it up but other then that there is nothing you can do.
2006-09-29 01:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The yellow teeth do not remember - that would desire to purely be a effect of becoming up able the place fluoride became extra to the water. The undesirable breath is extra of a situation, yet as quickly as I enjoyed the guy, then i might kiss him. i might additionally attempt to ensure that the breath have been given extra desirable, via feeding him issues that make the breath scent sweeter, and via diffused innovations! in spite of the undeniable fact that, are you able to hand on heart say you have in no way woken up with undesirable breath and kissed the guy next to you without dashing off to the washing room to scrub your teeth? Love makes you excuse lots!!
2016-10-18 04:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all of us has our own personal dental, we know how and when to clean our mouth, when to brush our teeth. And everybody knows what are the cause of badbreath tell him/her in a polite way to go to dentist and pull out his/her tooth decay...lol.
Pubic hair is part of human body, there is also unwanted hair in the armpit so if you dont like it into your partner why not tell him/her in a polite way im sure he/she will listen to you..lol.
Pimples or acne in face well mostly everybody experience on it..some people cure them right away coz they have enough budget for facial and go to derma..but what about the people who doesnt have enough budget for derma, like me before i have pimples on my face but dont have money to go to derma so I cure them in other way, used facial cleanser...and always have powder in my face time...to prevent an oily face...the best thing is always be clean and take a bath everyday...lol
To sum up all the things i said..If you really love the person whatever he is., you will accept him..and do your best to help him all the things that need to renew...Thanx..!
2006-09-29 01:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying that says, "Only your true friends tell you when your face is dirty."
If you are really in love, then you should find a way to tell that person that they have bad breath, stinky BO, pubic hair like cousin Itt, or a pepperoni face. It sucks, but you have to think of a way to say it without hurting their feelings.
2006-09-29 01:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by Cold Hard Fact 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Be honest. Be polite and make sure the timing is good - but be honest.
2) Help them with this. Loads of ways to sort this - help them.
3) If they don't see the issue - then leave
Don't be too subtle - such as leaving mints - confront it. A relationship is about honesty. if you cannot raise this, you have no relationship worth saving.
2006-09-29 01:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by Gary UK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump 'em if they're not worth it. I recently talked to a guy w/ horrible breath AND body odor. I tried to chill w/ him for that day, but when he tried to kiss me I damn near died. So when the movie was over i took my DVD and went home. IT WAS HORRIBLE. smelled like 3 month old cabbage was in his mouth. yuck!
2006-09-29 01:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by jaye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope-
When I was younger I had been dating this guy (first love) and we were so in love but he started smoking. I hate smoking!! YUCK! I thought that I could handle it cause I hated the thought of being without him but after awhile I lost interest in him because the smoking and stinky breath was such a turnoff!
2006-09-29 01:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by Alison 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love the person, you tell them and they fix it. My husband often has bad breath and I tell him nicely and he will brush his teeth or use mints. Body odor same thing, tell them, if you love them, if you don't, leave. I am very hygenic and can't stand odors of any kind in anyone and I tell them nicely. You can't kiss anyone with bad breath, that is gross.
2006-09-29 01:21:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend with awful breath and I just kept giving her mints. I didn't really like french kissing her due to her breath.
2006-09-29 01:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋