am i pregant?

Question

I am 13 years old. I know that i should've had sex but i did. I had sex on the 1,2,and 3 of september. I had a period on the 8th. I took a HPT on the 7th and it said negative. I took another one on the 24th and it said negative. But now i am bloated everyday all day. I don't feel bloated, but when i touch my stomach it feels like there is something in there. One last thing i started my first pack of birth-control in augest, could that have something to do with it? and AM I PREGANT?

Answer 1

Hi thickness.
First of all if you know you shouldn't have sex, please don't. You owe yourself more than you owe the guy.
Second, usually if you get a period after the last time you've have sex, it means you aren't pregnant---however, there are exceptions. And, often but not always, seven days or less before the start of your period is not usually a fertile time.
Third, most pregnancy tests are not valid until at least two weeks after conception, so the first negative means nothing at all, and even the second is questionable.
Fourth, I don't know of feeling bloated as being a common early sign of pregnancy (tender breasts and bitchiness were mine), but that can certainly vary.
So, I'd say you probably (but not certainly!) aren't pregnant, but feeling bloated could be related to the pills, and it might be a good idea to see your doctor about that or other side-effects.

Answer 2

I am no Doc, but it doesn't sound like you are. But it is very important that you take the advice of many of the people on here.

1st go to a Free clinic and have your self professional checked. Most clinic's can't tell anyone that you are there and can help you.

2nd re-think this whole idea of having sex at 13. Where you might think you are ready, you really aren't. Don't rush to grow up, enjoy your life, it only get's harder as you get older :)

3rd. Once you find out that you are not pregnant (I hope for your sake) remember this fear and feeling that you have now. Remember how worried you sound and how if you are/where pregnant, this would change your whole life.

All the fun things that you are about to do from 13 to 21 are the best times of your life. If you become a mom, they really would be some of the harder times.

There is no rush to have sex, wait as long as you can, it truly can be hard for adults to handle sex, let alone a younger person.

I rather not preach, but just take a sec and think of your actions before you act.

lastly, if you are brave and truly want to do the right thing, I would talk to an adult in your life that you trust. Mom, older sister, a holy person, someone or teacher at school.

Explain to them that you are sexually active (and please don't be yet, not at your age please) and have then explain to you all of the things that you are going to need to know about what comes with sex.

What illnesses you can get from people. (Some that can kill)

How to protect your self.

etc.

Good luck and I truly hope you do the right thing, Be well, Be safe,

Answer 3

Bloating and slight weight gain (due to water retention) are common side-effects of the birth control pill. As long as you have your breakthrough bleed during your pill-free week, you are not pregnant. Even if you were, it is far too early in the day to have any sort of symptoms, which kick in after six weeks or so, and you don't start to show until around four months. You are just having pregnancy paranoia. It's happened to me, too, even though I am also on the pill. The only difference is that I'm 23 and in a steady relationship. :P

Also, although the pill may protect you from pregnancy, it does not protect you from disease. When you do have sex again(which shouldn't be until you are 16) use a condom.

Answer 4

Some people still will have periods while pregnant, and with you taking birth control pills, the odds are not high that you are. If you do not want to go to the doctor right away, just take some time, if you are pregnant, the symptoms will worsen, and then you will know! I hope for your sake, that you are not...Good luck, take care, and stop with the sex thing....please!

Answer 5

Not only is this a ridiculous questiont but I really hope that you aren't actually 13. If you are 13 and are worried that you are pregnant go to a free clinic and ask for a pregnancy test. If it is still negative you are safe. And maybe you have learned your lesson and will wait until you are actually old enough to have sex.

Answer 6

Please do yourself a favor and think of the consequences before you attempt risks again ? Surely you should know better. Im gonna say that you prolly arent pregnant since you cant feel the baby (if its even one this early) this early on. Get a proper check up though jsut to make sure.

Answer 7

i hope that u are not worried about being pregnant because in the first place u should know that u are definitely too young to be engaging in sexual behaviour. anywayz to be on the safer side u should still go to a clinic where u can take another test

Answer 8

go to the docs chic check it out so your not worrying cause if your pregnant the last thing you will need is stress wont do either of you any good...so go get checked out and be on the safe side anywy..good luck x

Answer 9

Was it your first time,then your mind maybe playing tricks with you.Do yourself a favors don't have sex again until you can financially support yourself.

Answer 10

yes, ure pregnant... at the age of 13 only??? woh.. im coming to put ure pct in a newpaper