Is there such thing as a faithful woman?

Question

I treated my ex like a queen. We had a great relationship. I caught her texting her ex, and when I read them she was saying maybe someday they can get back together. But she also told him that she loves me when he asked. I am so confused. I kicked her out but I miss her so much. I have been cheated on twice before (not with this girl). I don't know what to do?

She says she didn't have sex with him since we started going out, and by reading the text it doesn't sound like it. So she didn't cheat on me, but it is close enough right? We gave each other space. That wasn't a problem. The relationship was perfect.

Answer 1

Yes there is such thing as a faithful woman. If you love her too much, you need to sit her down and both of you need to talk this over thoroughly and see where you both stand. If the relationship is worth saving then do that. Otherwise you don't want to love someone whose heart belongs to another

Answer 2

Well first of all, where did you meet this "queen of yours"? If you met her in a bar, forget it. Second if she fooled around behind your back once she will do it again. There are faithful women, but just like men they are few and far between. Anyone will tell you anything to keep up what they are doing in secret. My advise to you is to move on and take your time and find someone who deserves your love and attention. Take your time, women are not going to disappear from the earth anytime soon and there are plenty to go around. No they are not disposable, and should not be treated as if they are, but if you are going to have a serious relationship, you had better be sure of what you are getting into before you end up being hurt. I went with this woman for over twenty years off and on, and we got married a few years ago. After about seven years I became disabled and could not work, and the money stopped coming in. (about $450.00 a week) Well all of a sudden she did not want anything more to do with me. You would think that after 20 years there would be enough love to overcome and not take the place of money. I also treated her like a "queen" I sent her flowers 3 times a week where she worked and cooked on my days off, cleaned the house, and did laundry to help her as she is tired when she got off work, but no, that did not please her either. I gave up and told her if you base love on money, find someone else to please you. I walked out and have never looked back or even thought of her. I felt like I was used and betrayed, and someone only does that to me ONE time and there is no second chance. Life is too short to be used and mentally abused. Hope this helps, you did the right thing in my opinion. I know I wrote about me some, but wanted you to see there are others who have gone through what you did and are still alive and kicking. Just not as high. (hehehe)

Answer 3

Yes their is such a thing, especially when the other person is true and honest. But its who you chose.Let her go and settle her feelings out with ex and see who she really loves. Maybe she needed more time when you both got together and she just felt she had to rush into another relationship after she broke up with her ex.A lot of people rush into relationships too soon after a break up and sounds to me that she never really dealt with her feelings for this guy.Don't take her back if all you are going to do is give her a bad time about "texting", do yourselves a favor and just let her go.Find someone new to start out with and have a clean slate to deal with.If you want to make it work you can, you just have to try TOGETHER.good luck to you. sorry about that. been there and kind of hurts the pride doesn't it?

Answer 4

You need to start looking at the type girl your attracted to! Of course there is such a thing as a faithful woman, I'm one! I am very much in love with may boyfriend and wouldn't think of it! Thats not to say I don't look at other men or at times even flirt,I think that is nautural,unless your dead!

Answer 5

You need to go into couples counseling to get through this. Your issues from the past need to be dealt with soon so that you can move on from them and find a way to start trusting you spouse again. It sounds like you have major trust issues i.e. "I caught her...and when I read...I am so confused." This sounds like a scream for help to me. I hope you get it soon. Good luck.

Answer 6

Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.

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Answer 7

I think you did what you should have done. If you want to keep someone around that can't be faithful to you then thats up to you. Ok say you took her back..you are living together again..now can you trust her.. would she be able to do things without you wondering who she saw..what she did. It would be hard! There Are faith ful women out there..very faithful..you've just had some shitty luck.

Answer 8

Only the slaves. Womens lib says they should never be honest with men unless that falls within thier desires at the moment.

Answer 9

Stop, breathe, and change they type of woman you are hooking up with. Look for a woman who is a stayer, and one who is honest. You've kicked her to the curb, now start mending yourself.

Answer 10

not all gals are like that dont make all of us pay for her mistake. dont blame all girls. just go with your heart, take some time off and meet new people. when you find the one for you, you will know it was ment to be. and she Will be faithful. shes out there dont worry. hope you find her soon. good luck!