Even if the lust is there and its mutual is it a mistake to sllep wioth someone on the first date? Will a man think less of you if you do this?
2006-09-29 00:23:04 · 36 answers · asked by girly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes...
2006-09-29 00:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish this be easy to answer but heay yes it was a mistake to make-out but next if you an him do know each other an lust hit but if your contact numbers are all faked then one or both have been had an if you don't call but say that wasn't your nature an not do it for a month but if he like you will go back out again or you had feeling for someone else an yes or no to taking more calls sometime later if not sure of your relationship.
2006-09-29 00:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the mutual attraction is so strong that not to sleep with them would be a mistake you can never correct.
I met a beautiful girl in my bar one night and the attraction was irresistable, after I locked up we spent a night of unbridled passion as if we knew exactly what the other wanted with hardly a word spoken. It wasn´t a one night stand but only lasted a week.
If it hadn´t happened would both of us spent that lost chance regretting it.
I don´t think less of her and if anything I respect her honesty !!!!!
2006-09-29 00:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Peter R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...he will think differently of you. For example, when I was single I was the biggest male s l u t there was. Women knew that but I still had no problem of getting laid. I would 'score' over 90% of the time on the first date. After that I treated them like a sex object...not thinking much of what they thought.
Until I met my wife...a most beautiful women that I wanted to shag. Did it happen? No. After several dates I realized I found a women I could spend my life with but still there was no sex involved. The first time we had sex was exactly 6 months after our first date and it wasn't sex...we made love.
That was 17 years ago and we are still happily married.
2006-09-29 00:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Magicman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is out for one thing he's got it so forget it but if you were as well whats the problem it is the 21st century. If he's after a relationship with you make it clear you don't do it all the time but that you felt it was right with him. If he does like you it won't affect his opinion of you because he wants to be with you and he put out on the first date too. Just because he's a bloke doesn't make him a legend and you cheap!
2006-09-29 01:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by whufcfollower 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ithink it all depends on the people some men think it is ok some dont. Its a toughy to be honest. I would say ask yourself the same question about a man and you will have the answer you are looking for. If a man slept with you on the first date would you think any less of him???
2006-09-29 00:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Secretguk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was only looking for sex he'll be very happy you slept with him on the 1st date. But, if he was thinking you might be a great person to get to know better and possibly have a relationship with then he is probably wondering how often you DO sleep with someone on the 1st date and also re-thinking his intentions.
2006-09-29 00:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by cookiewurks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man really likes you, he wouldn't even try it on on your first date. A man will definitely think more of you if you do not sleep with him on a first date. And those men that don't, well they're only out for one thing i'm afraid.
2006-09-29 01:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by EmmaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think a lot more of you if you didn't sleep with him on the first date. It depends on what you want. If its eventually going to long term then definately not. If he thinks that much of you he will gladly wait till the time is right.
If its just sex that you are looking for and not a long term thing then its up to you. Go for it but don't get yourself a reputation.
2006-09-29 00:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by funguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sets up the way your relationship goes. If you shagged him on the first date then he may be wondering if you are going to have sex everytime. Maybe a way to get back on track is to see him again and have a date without any sex. You can still have a relationship but you need to make it clear what you are most interested in...him or his body!?
2006-09-29 01:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think if he wants to sleep w/you that soon, he either has no self control or does not care to get to know you so he must not have had a very good opinion of you to begin with.
Your opinion of him should change after finding out that that this is what he is up to.
2006-09-29 00:31:59 · answer #11 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋