I HAVE A GOOD FRIEND WHO HAD A LOT OF RESPECT AND ADMIRATION FOR ME. HE TAUGHT ME SO MANY GOOD THINGS IN LIFE.BUT NOWADAYS I GET INFERIORITY COMPLEXES DUE TO HIS ATTITUDE.HE NEVER RESPECTS ME NOW.HE TREATS ME AWEFULLY. WHAT DO I DO ABOUT HIM???
2006-09-28 23:16:50 · 15 answers · asked by amy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it's bcoz of the lessons he thought you and he thinks u r always dependent of him.. so he might be behaving badly but if u can prove him u r better then him he will realise or may brake up with you,,
2006-09-30 02:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by pavan k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some details seem to be lacking. Did you do something to change his mind? I suppose if you did not, then you need to set boundries for you and him. If you are being treated with a lack of respect. If you choose to allow this to be done to you, I would say you have an issue with your own self-esteem! A person can be of help and guide you but when you become too dependent it is often overwhelming. It has to be you who wants a change made in your life, he is not the problem, you have apparently wanted this good friend in your life and if you still do, then you have to be willing to face the consequences. You could ask him what the problem is? You could take time to do an inventory of your actions, words, honesty, integerity, and more. It may help you decide if you are worth having someone who treats you the respectful way, you want. You can not change him, ONLY YOURSELF! Best of Luck
2006-09-28 23:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by my4dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI! dear
first of all i say u r a good learner and a good person but remember u r not a door mat whose ever comes and can keep his/ her foot on u. that is OK she taught u many thing but she should not forget that u r still her friend and not servant.
dear make her realised that. i think self-respect is the biggest assets we have if once lost than we are lost 4 ever.
remember friend r those who knows how to respect there friends if they don't known then it's our duty to tell them ' hello we are ur friend and we deserve some respect'.
do u know "Jo Dara wo Mara"
2006-09-29 00:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
acquaintances are important. in case you care about your friendship then forget the guy. yet both one in each of you ladies favor to ignore him. in case you go away him and she or he grabs for the gusto, then she's no longer your pal. Boys will come alongside, and boys will flow. yet friendships must be for a life-time. in some unspecified time sooner or later you'll meet a boy and your pal will meet yet another boy and both of you'd feel free inclusive of your friendship AND your boyfriends. till then, do no longer make existence too complicated. One very last idea: loose THE TEXTING type of TYPING. IT SOUNDS IGNORANT! If inspite of you should assert is that important then make an attempt to spell it out. some persons previous persons have a problematic time understanding all this OMG and LOL junk. sturdy success. :)
2016-11-25 02:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and ask him what has changed. Tell him how you feel and ask him if he is aware that he's been doing this? His answer will determine which direction you should go. Friends do no humiliate friends. If someone is tearing you down insteadof building you up you need to re-evaluate the relationship. Good luck love.
2006-09-28 23:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by SweetyPie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to note what action of urs made this switch?
manytimes we feel, we are right; but some search wud tell us what we did wrong, then correct it.
even then he "humiliates" u; then he may have changed!
distance from him for sometime, re-try once - more; to get feelers;
if not accepting the "corrections" by u then;
sit down - cool down feelings; consult a close-one;
then only take - decision if required;
as it appears he was ur "mentor"; and not a "friend" ...;
u have to assess this difference, with cool mind........
best-wishes
many-ques!!!
2006-09-28 23:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by many-ques!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize! Clearly you must have done something to facilitate this behavior. If you haven't done anything than with friends like him who needs friends.
2006-09-28 23:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is like car warranty if it's gone is gone.
Time to find new friend and say thank you to the old.
2006-09-28 23:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk2him,tell him that he's changed n u dont like da way he's treatin u.If he dont change,u shudnt consider him as a friend.
2006-09-28 23:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't like how he treats you. If it continues drop as a freidnas he isn't relly your friend if he knowingly mistreats you anyway.
2006-09-28 23:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by Mica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋