I was with htis man 41 I am 24 and he is adventuring with other women but,I treat him like gold,we live separate lives but I bring him meals each day and when he is down I make it a point to go across london on a work day to make sure he is ok.
I try and tell him to please be good and not paly around but he does and can not seem to understand that i love him and even if we are apart I need him to stay true.
He says it is a back up net in case things between us turn sour, but the playing around will tear us apart.
Yet he says he can just forget me if i left he seems to have no hear and I just can not understand this behaviour.
2006-09-28 22:06:03 · 15 answers · asked by flavia d 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Sometimes when a nice lady lays their cards on the table and professes their love for us men we get scared and run off. its just in our nature. But from the sounds of it it doesnt look like your man recipricates the love that you have for him. Not to be harsh but have fun your 24! get setteled down and do all that stuff when your old!! chin up!
2006-09-28 22:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by Chris B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey iam a male and iam a great believer in true love,,
i think its about trust an being faithful but,
always i have believed in tru love, it works,,sometimes some of us never find it because we dont know what it feels like,,,if you know what it feels like its like a kchunka feeling deep within your heart.
iam thinking of this cause im thinking of my true love know,,,GOOSEBUMBS.,.swetwoman,stop it.
anywayz i think that sweetw person should feel it also.
i tell you a sad story what happened to the brother hood of man
Have you ever noticed the way a mother or a father will treat a boy../ boys usualy are not hugged an shown less effection too because they are seen as going to grow into men.an have to be stronger,
then men are stero typed an miss out on some of those thing that woman have gotton( love)Pure Platonic love) because they have been sterotyped also..i was lucky my true love found me
2006-09-28 22:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by GOOCH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of the other answers. Yuo shouldnt let yourself get treated like this. However if your really in love with the fella its easier said than done just to drop him.
Easiest way i suggest is to completely cut him out of your life, no contact whatsoever. Your young and it will take time to heal but sooner or later your meet someone else who will treat you right. x
2006-09-28 22:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by alan j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose this question could have the subtitle 'And why do females have no brain'. He's having you for a mug, using you, love. No matter how much you love him, he obviously doesn't love you, don't you see that? If you want to walk across London and cook for him and cheer him whilst he's shagging anybody he can get his hands on, then you're daft. Drop him like superheated pig ****.
2006-09-28 22:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you soundlike a really lovely women and all i can say is if you were my woman i would treat you like a lady and you would know you were loved,not all men are bad, and can think with our hearts and minds first,if you know what i mean.
ditch him and get a real man who will truly love you,and only you. get wise and good luck in finding the real man of your dreams,they do come true
2006-09-28 22:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by ralphthemouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all the male race is like this excuse for a man your with, he is very selfish and you are very foolish to chase after him, he is using you, dump him and find yourself a real man who will love you for been you, this man sounds like he can never love anyone.
2006-09-28 22:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That man is irresponsible. Dump Him now and look for someone who is your age mate. He is old enough to have settled down. You deserve a better life my sister. Tell him its over.
2006-09-28 22:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men and women don't think the same about love and relationships! Its just the way it is. Although men do hurt and care for a woman when they truly love her!
2006-09-28 22:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are MAD. Don't let yourself be treated like this. I think you have self-esteem issues and have trouble meeting new people.
You sound like a nice caring person who should be rewarded for your love and affection, not downtrodden.
2006-09-28 22:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because lots of males are heart broken.
2006-09-28 22:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by Walt. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋