For example, for 2-3 weeks, they have had very interesting conservation and suddenly one day he stops calling her. What might have happenned ?
Busy ? Bored ? Meet other people ? Not ready to jump in ? Or, is it like in the book " Men are from Mars and Women are form Venus ", he just behaves like a rubber band ?
What's men thinking anyway ?
2006-09-28 21:57:48 · 21 answers · asked by I.can 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
ok, ok, everyone, let's put the S-E-X word out of the case! -- For example, no sex happenned.
2006-09-29 15:06:04 · update #1
well, i was going to try and answer you, but then you just go on ahead and tear the lid of pandora's box about us! :(
ok. ill try...
a) depends on what the guy is interested in, depends on where he thinks its going, could be he was fronting to get at her for something else. same could be also with her and he found her out. OR he just met somebody else, OR his capacity to call has been truncated technically, OR he just flat out lost interest for no reason whatsoever. OR maybe hes in the hospital somehwere in a coma! - see there is a ton of variables for you right out the side of my neck of crazy combinations. Maybe something I havent stated above and also maybe a combo of things...such as he met anotehr girl but he wanted to maintain this calling thing, then after a date with the other girl he was rushing home to call her and got in a wreck and is now in the hospital.
B)Busy? quite possibly, but id play that down, because he would be able to tell it if were merely that without all kinds of other interest related motivational issues and / or technical difficulty / physical impossibility...maybe he got DUI and just happens to prioritize calling his lawyer?
C,D) see A
E) maybe hes scared of her because he doesnt want to end up with an Oprahs book of the month club kinda gal.
F) yes...or a stick of gum, or a hamburger, or scisors or a paper clip,.....? I like 'Drunken Mad Monkey Kung Fu' myself...I have attempted to emmulate that movie in everything I do in my life to varrying degrees of success.....:p
G) Men is thinking....thats a hopeful shot....unfortunately, aside from what may be common appearance or typical you can expect etc from men, try not to laugh...we are not all drones with a mother brain. thus the monker 'what is men thinking?' you present shows that you are attempting to dissect the male mind where in fact men are just your human beings like you but typically made of less water, and typically think of sex every 8 seconds...or so they say! 8===================D ( . Y . )
2006-09-28 22:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by jorluke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right... Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus...
All men know that women (and gay men) over think issues... they put too much into somethings that are not that important...
Maybe the guy is tired of having one sided conversations with you... you know what I mean. Maybe you should talk to him and not to other people to figure out what's going on... guys are like gals. They are individual human beings. Except, men normally don't share relationship details with their friends - like women are known for doing. Because, men prefer to hear it from the source... not from someone that really doesn't know anything.. like your girlfriends...
I'm not being negative - just calling it like it is.
The facts are:
1. He's a person like you are
2. If you have questions about him -- then ask him
3. Guys are more loyal then your best girlfriend will ever be...
4. If you want to build trust.. then you have to have faith.
5. If you think he's cheating on you.. then he may be cheating on you or you're too young to be in a relationship anyways.
6. Men are not smarter than Women and Women are not smarter than Men as whole -- get all of those cliches out of your head and go back to number 1.
Life is an adventure... Enjoy the time you spend and always remember to be HONEST. I said honest NOT mean -- there is a difference.
Good luck, have fun and stop worrying about the little stuff.
p.s. EVERYTHING is little stuff.
2006-09-28 22:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by John Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps its possible, that during the convo, you were having more fun than he...
Were you doing most of the talking? He may think you talk too much and may not be in the mood.
Were you guys in a bar? Maybe he was drink talking...WTF is that you ask? Well, its basically the point of intoxication when some, normally reserved people have their charisma and social enhanced via each serving of alcohol. Perhaps this may be another case.
Did you guys hook up? How dyu even know he has a phone...or a house for that matter?
Did you give him your cell number or your house phone? Which one is he prepared to call and with what window of time?
At the very least, he may not want to lead you on...or he may not be interested.
2006-09-29 03:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Aan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When He Stops Calling
2016-12-14 18:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something that you said, turned him off, I know, I'm a guy, I do the same thing, all I have to hear is that little thing that speaks volumes about a woman come out, and what they are really like, and I'm history. Some of the posts women put up here about men, scares the sh-t out of men, that's why these women are NOT married. Women think men are stupid, they really are not, when you're speaking, they're "Scanning what you say", if a man hears a woman complaining about other men in general, he's thinking "I'm gonna get Hen Pecked my whole life", TRUST ME, he's thinking this !
2006-09-28 22:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be one of a thousand reasons. You don't say what your relationship is. If was calling as a friend don't worry he Will phone again. If not well, men believe it or not fall in love way faster than woman. Now wait before the world attacks me for generalizing I know everyone is different but in most cases this is true. So when they just meet a woman they tend to do everything to get our attention. It may be that they then realize there feelings aren't so strong. But don't worry this just mean your man has not found you yet.
2006-09-28 22:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by CiCi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't read too deeply into every event. Sometimes, the simplest answer is the correct answer. Best thing to do? Never wait for his call. Get a life! Let him do the waiting. It's more fun that way, correct? Don't bother trying to understand relationships - most of the time, people do not react the way we expect them to. This is human nature. Nothing to be upset about.
2016-03-18 02:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honeymoon is over and he has moved on. What's really wrong here is that he did not communicate this to you. Tells you more about him than years of courtship. Be glad you got out after 3 weeks and not 30 years like some of us.
Move on there are lots of great guys out there.
2006-09-28 22:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by easinclair 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't believe books like "men are from mars and women are from venus". those books are just published for the $$ and overexaggerate gender differences, thereby reinforcing stereotypes and making it even more difficult to truly connect with the opposite gender.
but to answer your question, he may just have noticed that he's not interested. if it's only one day though, maybe he's just busy...if he doesn't call back in a week or so, then he's probably not interested. not necessarily bored...just maybe noticed that you guys arent compatible?
2006-09-28 22:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by hello_out_there 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lots of things could have happened. don't trip. you will never know exactly why he stopped calling you unless he is on in a million and will actually "sack-up" and come out with it. just go on with your everyday life and if it is meant to be it will, if not then you didn't waist your life pondering over what someone else might be thinking.
2006-09-28 22:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by susieQ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋