2006-09-28 21:31:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, don't walk on egg shells around him....I know you do. You probably feel like you have to pay close attention to how you do your daily activities to keep him from being suspicious or getting upset. You aren't doing anything wrong to begin with, so don't do those things for his benefit. (personal experience)
You can try talking to him directly, but chances are, that won't work. The one thing I have learned is if they have always been possesive, they don't change. A little bit of honest jealousy is in out human nature, but possesion is different.
2006-09-28 21:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 12:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chonna be careful. He sounds desperate and if you do something that he doesn't like, he might kill you because of his jealousy. It is better you confide in your family and find a way to leave him and move to another city, without letting him know where you are. He is a maniac. He doesn't want you to deal with men at all. that is not possible. you know that. Leave him chonna.. leave him SOON
2006-09-28 21:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Hysteria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U wanna keep him??? Well tell him his the hottest man in the worl and u cant live without him and wanna be with him every moment. That will take care of him.
2006-09-28 21:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by WORLD CLASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the problem with many persons.
They think it is their right over wifes.
You have your rights.
Think and let go his nature.
People change.
My wife also had this problem.
Now I do what she says.
2006-09-28 21:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by SKG R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be emotional abuse or a mental illness on his part, so please consider those possibilities and keep yourself safe. Call a women's shelter if necessary. Don't let him treat you that way indefinitely.
2006-09-28 21:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just send him packen on down the road..he's not worth messen with.....
2006-09-28 21:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
devorce
2006-09-28 21:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by A R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F*ck him up!
2006-09-28 21:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋