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I have a crush on this person, But I don't know if he likes me back. Help!?!?

2006-09-28 21:06:19 · 17 answers · asked by Audrey and Christine 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

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well i think u should start of being his friend....first...make sure friend first then take over....well u gotta think how yall spend time together.... thats all.... does he check out other gurls..... if he does then u kno he is a playa n then u kno wat to do not to go for a guy like that....because youre gona be the one who ends up getting hurt not the guy...he will move on like its nothing to him..u digg????so i think u should take things slowly n then make a move... but it be nice if he made a move then u wouldnt be runnun after him....so then later on the relationship he wouldnt treat u like his *****.....ight then hope everything works out goood for you..... take care n be happy......

2006-09-28 21:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by !HiS GUrL! 1 · 0 0

Ok,firstly, do you know this person whom you have a crush on? How can you like this person when you don't even know him well.If you happen to be friends with him, then I think you should be able to tell whether he likes you back or not by his facial expressions or the way he interacts to you.If you have the guts,tell him straight on the face.

2006-09-29 04:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by radioconcrete 2 · 0 0

Best thing to do is just ask. It doesnt hurt to ask if this person likes you back. I would first let the person know how i feel about that person first. Good luck!!! P.S. DONT WAIT 4EVER TO TELL THIS PERSON!!!! GO 4 WHAT U WANT AND HOPEFULLY U WILL GET IT.

2006-09-29 04:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

u go to him and explain your feelings,don't say him directly,this may affect your present relationship.in your conversation,u tell him how your life had been changed after his entry and tell him his importance in your life,then after some days u say him directly that u luv him.if this doesn't work then gift him a cute thing that emphasises on your friendship or help him in his either work and then express your feelings,remember that u should not hurry,its my personal experience.try all this & pls. tell me the outcomes,i will give u more ideas.good luck!

2006-09-29 04:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by SHATAKSHI 1 · 0 0

its ok ya u need some frank moments with him . unless u dont tell him what u feel , how will u know his part. go with a bang && tell him . u never know he must be feeling the same thing 4 u .

2006-09-29 04:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by shashank g 1 · 0 0

Well, it's not the same thing as telling thenm you love them, but the advice works just the same... Take a shot... Best of luck to you...http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhxSO_kJ8EtlFb3NFue8X3zsy6IX?qid=20060915031947AAEoDPI

2006-09-29 04:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by zekemilli4 3 · 0 0

i have the same problem like you.all will tell 2 ask him but if you're scared,do some experiments 2 make sure that he loves you back

2006-09-29 04:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by robin 1 · 0 0

just go and tell him! in my opinion never keep anything in your mind! it will just increase the burden on your mind! so let the words come out of ur mouth and tell him the way you feel! he will surely respect your sentiments!

2006-09-29 04:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

1. Someone who sees the best in you.

If you were lucky enough to grow up with healthy parents, you have experienced the feeling of having someone who has always looked at your good qualities. Many of us missed that experience. You will be a lucky person if you have found a mate who is always looking at your 'silver lining'. Too often today people are more than willing to judge you by your errors, not by your potential.

2. Someone who gives you the benefit of the doubt.

There are so many times in your life when you need that little edge, that little opportunity to take just that extra step. It can seem as if your efforts are going nowhere and although you want to keep moving forward, there are so many negatives staring you in the face. That person who knows things could go either way for you but takes that leap to believe you will make it is the person who is more valuable to you than gold.

3. Someone who watches over you.

You need a guardian angel who is there, waiting to catch you if you fall, ready to help you when you stumble, ready to pave the way for you when you cannot get moving. There are people who love you who do just that. There are people who do not make a big deal out of saving your bacon. Do you know who they are?

4. Someone to watch you back.

You never know these days who is waiting to catch you off guard, to make sure you don't do well, to sabotage your efforts. You like to think that people will rejoice when you

do well. Many don't. If someone 'has your back' and runs interference for you when you are trying to run the gauntlet through life, give that person a big 'thanks' plus lots of your attention.

5. The person who tells you we all make mistakes.

You hate to be around that judgemental, harsh person who reminds you, 'I told you so', when things so south. You don't need anyone else telling you what you already know. On the other hand there are people who just let you know that the only way any of us learn is through experience. When you have really ended up in the dumper and blew it, stay close to the one who knows that the person who hasn't done anything wrong hasn't done anything much.

6. The person who gives you advice from the heart, not from the head.

When the situation gets rough and some big decisions need to be made, it's fine to have people outline the pros and cons of a problem and give you 'head' answers. But if you need a nudge sometimes to tip the scales, you always listen to this person who knows you must do what will let you live with yourself and have self respect.

7. The person who won't be the 'yes man' who agrees with you

No one who loves you is going to give you the green light and tell you to let er rip if it's clearly going to be bad for you. It's sad that often you surround yourself with people who tell you what you want to hear. The one who loves you will tell you to get help for a drinking or drugging problem, to stop the extramarital affair, and to be a good and decent person.

8. Someone who tells you to knock back, smell the roses, and enjoy life part of the time.

If you are a person who is a real performer and doer, there are likely to be people around you who enjoy the fruits of your labor and want you to do even more. Sometimes you may even see yourself as only valuable when you are giving, doing, and performing. Listen to the person who tells you that life is short and you need breaks and some R&R. That is the person who is looking out for you and your health.

9. The one who smiles at you and means it.

The person who loves you looks at you with eyes that smile and mean it. Too many people give you that slick smile, that quick pat on the back, and then forget that you even exist.

The eyes are the windows of our soul and you can read into a person's smile if it is saying, 'You are a fine person and I want to be with you as long as possible'. Don't fall for any phony smile that attracts you off in another direction, only to leave you stranded and alone.

10. Someone who sees you as beautiful, inside and out.

You know you aren't perfect. There are only too many examples of you looking around and thinking that you have flaws and aren't like the people on television. The person who loves you sees you through eyes of acceptance with no conditions. As you gain a few pounds and your hair gets thin, the person who sees you as attractive, inviting, and appealing is the person who loves you all the way, no strings or demands.

Nowadays, it's really important to know who loves you. Everything in our society is throw away, and many people have carried that over into the most important relationships in their lives. Think hard and look carefully. People who love you , like comfortable clothes, are easy on the heart, mind, and soul.

2006-09-29 04:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well then just walk right up to him and introduce yourself and tell him how you feel about him and see what his reaction is? and go from there.

2006-09-29 04:10:44 · answer #10 · answered by orlin 3 · 0 0

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