2006-09-28 19:52:28 · 10 answers · asked by indescribable.random.retro.love 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
not being a smart *** but how can he be your best friend if he doesn't talk to you? It kinda sounds like the magic left, and he doesn't know how to go back to the way things were. Try making a date night, and small talk. Maybe conversation will start flowing. Or you could consider counseling. Congratulations!! Good luck and God Bless!!
2006-09-28 19:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Plain truth: He is a friend and not a husband. He's not even your boyfriend, so he's obviosly not looking for commitment or responsibility. That baby is going to bring those things. Maybe he's scared and will soften if you are patient and nice (but not a doormat), and maybe he'll just move farther and farther away from you.Being a single Mom is hard, for you and the baby, so try to gently get this guy on the same page as you. Don't push too hard, but keep including him and making it fun when you're with him.
2006-09-28 20:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by theinfalliblenena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son would be 2 this month. He has been saying words considering he became a million, common ones like ball, cup, mommy, daddy, doggy...he has an rather super vocabulary whilst it incorporates only saying one be conscious. He has only in the previous few weeks began to place 2 or 3 words mutually. i'm not worried. i understand a 2 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old that talks a mile a minute! My son is obviously in the back of the different infant yet i don't think of he's "in the back of'. i don't think of your son is the two. My son will additionally tell me loooong memories in jibberish, I see not something incorrect with it. maximum young ones capture as much as a minimum of one yet another via the time they're preschool or kindergarten. as long as they comprehend and might communicate i don't see a situation. I advised my son on the instant "bypass throw this away and then grab me a towel to scrub your milk up, and whilst i'm achieved take the towel and positioned it in the abate please." He remembered and did it step via step. only because of the fact they'd't communicate nicely yet would not advise they're in the back of in my eyes. stable luck alongside with your eye-catching infant. :)
2016-10-18 04:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by jaisigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be having second thoughts or be unsure of his place in your life and your baby's. Maybe he's feeling overwhelmed with unexpected emotions. He may have carefully planned for the baby's birth but never thought that it would really affect his life. Maybe he just feels that action speaks louder than words.
You need to be direct with him about your needs. If you need specific info from him, ask for it. If you need reassurance, ask for it. He is male and is likely to only answer what is asked of him and not get into the deeper subtext. It's likely that he's not uncaring, just a little clueless.
2006-09-28 20:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, like all men, he probably wants to get away from the responsibility of fathering a child that he i assume didnt plan for! am sorry to say, if he's acting this way, you might end up being a single parent. if he wont talk, try, i know its hard, but try to forget him and work on being the best mother ever for your baby. wishing your baby good health and a gooud life!
2006-09-28 19:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by BeeJay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
<>Exactly what do you mean by "...he does everything else but talk 2 me..."? Does it mean that he takes care of his child? Does it mean he pays support to you? Does he acknowledge the kid in any way? Does he show the child off to his friends and family? If not, he isn't doing "anything." He needs to support you and the child. If he won't do it voluntarily, take him to court. Now!
2006-09-28 20:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by druid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you, but doesn't know what to do. and you have a kid together so if things got messed up, then your friendship would be over, not that theres much going on now anyway.
2006-09-28 20:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is maybe only using you for the sex part,or he is plain simple and doesnt no what to say to you,get another man
2006-09-28 20:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by macguyver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because he sees you, his best friend, with his baby... it probably *scares* him. tell him to grow up
2006-09-28 20:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is an ******.
2006-09-28 19:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by crystal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋