I was raised in a christan setting, good family.. I have a boyfriend and he is the only one that knows about my "issue"... Sometimes I feel unhappy about being "in the closet" what should I do?
2006-09-28 19:40:14 · 19 answers · asked by Serenity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your boyfriend must be pumped....he is one lucky guy...for a guy that is way cool....
2006-09-28 19:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by loofa36 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well your not really in the closet, your kinda digging in the closet. I have the same background as you and well really if you feel unhappy about it, either don't think about it or, change what makes you feel unhappy about it. For me it was the people i was a around they were all straight and tightwads, i changed my friends and I have no problem being me.
2006-09-29 04:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lorena S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u just let everyone on "ANSWERS" no ur bi- well 1st u only live once so live life to the fullest! Dont worry about what others think. You are ur own person 1st of all. Do what makes u happy and fallow ur heart...U gotta come out the closet some day. Just keep doing what u do except dont sneak around, if they see u w/ another women then let them see....
2006-09-29 02:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by raiderfanmom 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, you should be comfortable with your identity. If you are confident, then it shouldn't really matter what other narrow minded people think about you. But on the other hand, don't feel like you have to hang a banner outside your home. if you need to, tell only the people that have a special place in your life like your boyfriend and close friends. You should be proud of your sexuality and having the guts to tell people in the society we live in.
2006-09-29 03:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by natashabo 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It can be very tough to hide your bisexual side from the world. I can relate since I am a 37 year old bi male and no one really knows about me either.
2006-09-30 19:06:09 · answer #5 · answered by metalheadny69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are afraid and concerned about this is good. It shows you have accepted your illness and are redeemable/can make a recovery as long as you seek help.
Remember, admitting you have a problem is the first step towards redemption and eternal happiness :)
Good luck :)
2006-10-02 01:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first off are you stating your bi or straight gay? If your bi why the urge to let everyone know if it bothers you? You can still present with your M/Fm relationship and still have your ladies on the side. My lady has gone years without making hers public knowledge.
2006-09-29 04:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and your family will take time but will com around your not the only one out their with these feelings and its not good for you to keep it all bottled up inside let it out .you will see things will turn out OK in the end .
2006-09-29 20:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is kind of crazy because i feel the same way too. i think i may be bisexual cause i'm married but i am in love with my lesbian friend and she knows but i really dont know how she feels about me. anyway no one knows about me being bisexual except for my husband and my best friend. its really hard for me cause my mother always told me if i left my husband for a femal e she would disown me. so it just depends on how ur life is going right now.if u dont think anyone in ur family really cares then you should be wide open about it.
2006-09-29 02:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by mary g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just wait until the right moment where u feel comfy with telling ppl.
2006-09-29 02:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by Emma B. 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Go to Yahoo Search, and type in feeling about being bisexual.
It's not porn!
2006-09-29 02:56:59 · answer #11 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋