My love my girlfriend very much... But she seems a bit "loose" any suggestions?

Question

and no, its no me.....

Answer 1

If u love your girlfriend very much as you say dont let her looseness bother you too much. Its not like she can get another one that may be firmer and tighter for your happiness. Instead focus on being able to communiate better with ur gf. The only suggestion i can give you is be open and honest and ask her to practice tightening her pelvic muscles by tensing. If she does this during sex it'll be sensational.. One more thing.. ever tried anal sex..?? Dosnt get tighter than that. U might like to use lubricant to save you gal the pain..

Answer 2

You mean loose like a button on a shirt is loose and needs a quick stitch so it does not fall off??? Possibly she just needs a few stitches to close the gap up?

Duh - if you think she is loose - she is loose. If your friends have all had a turn and ya'll can all exchange notes on what she likes, well - she is loose!

If ya love her and you don't care if she is loose than why ya even asking?

Come on - have some respect for yourself and her .... don't tell the world your gf is loose!

Wishing you the best .... passing you some thread and a needle!

Answer 3

Well, if you mean loose as in...she gets with a lot of other guys even though you two are together still...get rid of her. If you mean loose as in...she used to get with alot of other guys, but not anymore- maybe she was just waiting for the right one, and you're him. If you mean loose in any other way- that's on you and I have no advice there. BUT...if you feel bothered by her being "loose" now (if she is) or being "loose" before now...talk with her about how you feel.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

She probably has moral issues that weren't dealt with during her child hood years. she may change, but needs Gods interventiion. Find out what it is that she looks for in men. She may not be getting the satisfaction she thinks she need especially if she does it for sex. Otherwise It could be for financial reasons.

Have a serious chart with her if you really want to stay with her. oIf not beware your health is at risk of contracting STIs, its time you booked out.

Answer 6

Tactfully find a way to give her an article on Kegel exercises.If you mean she's pure as the driven slush,everybody has a past .

Answer 7

Whoever said that the woman cannot tighten up doesn't know what he's talking about. Kegel exercises (and similar exercises for different muscles in the same area) would certainly help tighten things up. The problem is, how do you tell her that she should exercise those muscles without hurting her feelings?

I see two tactful ways to approach the problem of mentioning it. But first you will need to become an expert on Kegel exercises for men and women. I would hunt for links, but information on the topic is ridiculously easy to find on any respectable search engine. Here are typical results:
http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/wha/wha_kegel_crs.htm
http://www.gopilipinas.com/magazine/men-Sexuality/Sexuality1.htm

Once you become an expert on Kegel exercises, you may find that you knew about the muscles all along and didn't know that people exercised them (that was the case with me). You have three choices that I can think of:

1) If you have known about the muscles all along, get really good at using yours. Then start doing that when you are together, during foreplay and during sex. You could start a conversation about it that way, or by hanging something from your penis while it is erect and making it bounce up and down (because sometimes women find that funny and that would be a good way to start the conversation). Thanks to your extensive knowledge of Kegel exercises (hopefully, at least), you will quickly be able to rattle off that it feels good, helps you ejaculate more forcefully, alter urine flow, etc. You will also know how to locate the muscle, and you can tell her that you *think* (not know, as you will know) women have a similar muscle. Then, "help" her look for it, just out of curiosity ;-) The idea is that you want this to be a pleasant experience for her and you want her to know that you are excited by the idea that she might find it. If you can't locate it manually, she should be excited enough to have sex at this point. So, after you get started, ask her to resume her efforts to locate it. If you feel it (it might be very faint for a while, because she is loose), tell her you like it and you want her to keep doing it! If not, be patient. This method would be good if you can pull it off, but it can backfire because she might say "oh, I think only men have that muscle" or something like that; or she might be unable to locate it and conclude that she does not have the muscle (remember, you didn't tell her you KNOW she has it).

2) Whenever she's in the mood to do whatever she can do to please you in bed, and she asks you what you want her to do, you can tell her that your last girlfriend "twitched" or "pulsed" when you penetrated her. Keep your description of it vague, and tell her you loved it and you want her to try. It is possible that she will be able to do it. Pay careful attention, because it may be difficult to tell that she's doing it if she feels loose. If she is, somehow let her know that you like it (however you two communicate during sex; I suggest moaning and short complementary phrases) But there are many pitfalls to this approach. One of them is the fact that you are mentioning someone else. That may make her self-conscious. Also, if she is unable to do this favorite move of yours, she may feel like she has let you down.

3) Get very good at the male version of Kegel exercises. Find a website centered around presenting the exercise to women and men with a mention of sexual benefits of the exercise, and bookmark it. Then, somehow arouse her curiosity about the exercises (during foreplay, etc., as in the first scenario) and tell her that you read about them on the Internet. Then show some enthusiasm and get her to try before looking at the site. (Or, show her the site first, then get her to try.) When she succeeds in doing it, no matter how faint, give her some positive feedback. Moans and groans are good to start with because you need to step up the feedback slightly as she improves (and she might develop a fairly strong grip at some point!). As she gets better at it, you will need to let her know that it feels better and better. I mean, keep it real, but let her know that you really like her to do that. When you show her the site, and respond positively to her efforts, I think that will be a good start. After she is more experienced with it, enthusiastically comment that she feels tighter (even if the difference is only slight) and that you love it. When you have sex, you can ask for her to do that squeeze and respond well to it. I'd bet that after all that, she will feel so great about her new talent that she will continue working at it until she is significantly tighter!

Now, there are various exercise devices that can be used in the vagina. If she is comfortable and knowledgeable about Kegel exercises, MAYBE you can bring that up in conversation without hurting her feelings (after all, her condition should improve by then). I'm told that they are generally very effective.

Another way you can possibly help the problem is penis enlargement. But I assure you that if penis enlargement is even possible, it is much more difficult and possibly risky than vagina toning. So your best bet is to get your girlfriend to squeeze for you. Good luck!

Answer 8

Here loose means i think she was physically very weak that use calcium content foods like sugarcane and bananas these foods make strong and use appetite syrup that help fulfor taking food regulary . ok

Answer 9

have her go to the gym and do inner thigh workouts.Or use that one workout machine thatmakes you squeeze her inner thighs together while sitting down.

Answer 10

Ignore the slack and arch your back!