2006-09-28 19:26:31 · 9 answers · asked by antonio c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes works ....if your in love .....and if u dont put many questions
2006-09-28 19:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by diana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a relationship, where my boyfriend travels and is gone for weeks at a time and then when he comes home he is here for a couple of days and he is gone again, I guess you could call it a long distance relationship. We spend more time on the phone than we do holding hands.
We have been in this relationship(as it is now) for almost a year. I love him and am willing to move with him so we can be together more often. We are both mature and have a good bit of experience in what to and not to do in a relationship and we have had one hell of a battle trying to keep 'us' together.
I never want to do this again, it has been real hard, I am strong, patient and somewhat independent and I feel emotionally drained.
I am still hanging in there because I love my man.
2006-09-29 03:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sheila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can work but only with the right type of people. I studied in Paris for a 1/4 and my boyfriend stayed in CA. Then I transferred to a different school halfway through college. We've both graduated now and have been together 4 years, and finally live back in the same place after 2 years apart.
You need to trust each other completely. If you don't it will never work because you will always wonder what the other one is doing. You also need to have toher things in your life to keep you busy, otherwise you won't be able to handle being on your own without the other person around all the time.
Also, just make sure you keep the other person involved in your life. They won't be there with you, but make sure you tell them whats going on in your life, so they can continue to be involved and you don't grow apart.
It can work, but its not always good for everyone. The most important things are to trust each other and to be trustworthy.
2006-09-29 02:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by aroybal854 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how into the person you are and how important the relationship is to you both. In my experience and opinion; they don't work out. You spend so much time apart from the person; you begin leading a different life and other things begin to take on more importance in your life than the relationship itself. It's not always easy picking up in the relationship where you left off. This isn't always the case but almost ALWAYS is. It doesn't hurt to try. If it works for you, cool. If not, you'll understand why once it happens. Good luck to you.
2006-09-29 02:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by SoCalGal75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long are we tallking about? If u don't see the person- what is working or not working?
2006-09-29 02:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, trust issues and green little monsters come out in people who are insecure about themselves.....
2006-09-29 02:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always...some may work some may not.it all depends on the person concern.
2006-09-29 02:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by warmhearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless patience is your strongest viture.
2006-09-29 02:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by Brad A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had any luck with them...
2006-09-29 02:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋