I have ppl tell me im fine and i dont need to worry about loosing wieght and that im pritty but when i go out i get so sad and i feel really ugly when i look in the mirror. Well what are some things i should do? im sick of feeling so hurt!
2006-09-28 18:55:30 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
I think you probably really are pretty and don't need to lose weight, but it sounds to me like you have a combination of low self-image and possibly mild depression.
I think you need to get some counseling. This doesn't mean you are mentally ill, or sick, or crazy. It just means there is something missing in your life and you aren't sure what it is.
It could be something as identifiable as a rejection in love that you haven't gotten over. It could be a holdover from a bad experience in childhood.
I would be willing to bet money that if I could see you right now in person I would be astounded at how beautiful you are, but I would also be overwhelmed by the obvious fact you have been hurt and are sad.
You deserve to be happy. We all do. If I could touch you right now I would give you a hug, but I can't so I hope you will accept the sentiment and do what you have to do to have the happiness you are entitled to.
2006-09-28 19:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time when you feel this way, it has nothing to do with your looks. There is something deeper inside yourself you are not happy about. Even though you do not need to lose weight, sometimes exercising gets the blood flowing and will make you feel better.
2006-09-29 02:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by GEE-GEE 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may be clinically depressed, you might be having a bad spell of teenage angst, or you might have some personality glitches, things you would like to change about yourself and the way you think. No offense intended, but a therapist might help..
2006-09-29 02:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eyes of beholder. Have self esteem. Be positive. To get love, first love.
To get friendship, be friendly first.
Goodluck
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2006-09-29 02:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by Balu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you must be so sad because you cant spell at all, pretty, weight, and so on. no one is hurting you but you, wake up, think about this, you have legs, what about girls who just live their lives in a wheel chair, you are just too self centered.
2006-09-29 01:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Self esteem is lacking here. You must endeavour to convince yourself that you are as pretty as people tell you. You need to tell yourself over and over: "I feel pretty". You look good to me.
2006-09-29 02:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by kytho 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋