I'm NOT a LESBIAN and yet I got a crush on a lesbian bec. she is handsome and good in basketball and its my first time to admire a lesbian at this age of 17, what SHOULD I do?
2006-09-28 18:44:08 · 11 answers · asked by grace 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Try becoming her friend. Don't label yourself. If you feelings develope further than great. If not, you have a good friend and basketball partner.
2006-09-28 20:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation in high school. I was on the track team and I looked up to one of the older guys. I liked him and we went camping one weekend and got to spend time together and we ended up having a great summer as friends with benefits. I consider myself straight today, but that summer I experimented and I'm glad I did. We are still good friends today, but without the extra benefits.
Just follow your heart. You have your whole life to worry about what you are. enjoy life in the now while you're still young, so when you get older you won't be wondering, what if?
2006-09-29 02:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by lifhapnz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, why do you need to label yourself, why can't you just enjoy the moment with the basketball girl, and if that doesn't' works for you, move on.
But don't go around thinking "what am I?"
That's just my advice.
2006-09-29 02:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u may not be a lesbian- but u are bi... do u admire or have a crush... what turns u on about HER
2006-09-29 02:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Common ailment..we all get sidetracked occasionally by someone who is stunning, regardless of sex. Don't make more of it than it is. It is not necessarily a crush, just a facination...no more, no less. Good luck
2006-09-29 01:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and see what happens! Maybe she might like you the same way. There is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone.
2006-09-29 01:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Paladin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like you're looking for a specific answer you're not getting coz you asked this earlier, only it was volleyball she was hot at.
2006-09-29 01:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
flirt. have fun. don't do or say anything you aren't prepared to follow up on - don't go breakin' her heart. otherwise, flirt and make yourself crasy.
ah, crushes..
2006-09-29 04:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by radtam55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by smiling at her...talk to her...get to know her more...
2006-09-29 02:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek help. May allah help you.
2006-09-29 01:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋