2006-09-28 18:41:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sit on him.
2006-09-28 18:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 7⤋
Good luck! I'm a bbw is what we call ourselves. Big Beautiful Women. And in everyday life I don't get second glances, looks or even a booty check! Only when I wear super low cut shirts which I am not comfortable with. But the right guy will come along some day and sweep you off your feet. I'm hoping anyway. But until then, maintain yourself. Don't let yourself go. Wear clothes that are flattering. Shirts are important. If you still have an hour glass figure kind of. Find shirts that are not a straight design like a T-Shirt. Wear like a button down blouse. Those are usually flattering for our figure. Stay away from BRIGHT colored clothing they do nothing for us!
Do not, and I mean do not wear a flare style pant. They only make you look wider. Wear a straight leg jean, but not big and baggy. Remember the baggier the clothing the bigger you look!
2006-09-28 18:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Brandi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Attitude is very important.
I think more guys like "fat" girls than they wanna admit.
If you project confidence and show a sense of sexappeal about yourself you will be surprised how many guys come your way.
Don't be ashamed of your size and feel free to show off your curves. Don't hide it with sack clothes.
A sexy walk (hip movemennt) from a "fat" girl will turn my head and keep it turned much longer than a bean pole with fake boobs ANYDAY!
Watch some classic flicks from the 50s and see how women walked during that era and incorporate that into your own style.
They seemed to be able to glide as they walked rather then clump around like they are wearing cement shoes...like many of the younger gals today.
In your private time, try walking around with a book on your head and in low heels to enhance your posture.
Shoulders back, head up, breasts out...
Smile too...
Try wearing low open toed heels and keep your feet pretty (ashy heels and chipped polish is SOOO tacky) and expose a lil' leg when you cross them.
Best wishes.
2006-09-30 07:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by paeradio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them. It doesn't matter if your fat or anything (well, sometimes to boys...), it's your confidence and socializing skills. Talk to a guy like it was your old friend! Sooner or later, maybe they'll ask you out.
But at the same time, try to lose weight. Gradually, you'll look better with confidence, all boys will be asking you out! =)
Good luck girl!
2006-09-28 18:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be YOURSELF! ... If a guy can't notice you as yourself.. he ain't worth the trouble! ... Don't ever become someone your not just because you really want a guy to notice you... I know it sucks... but it sucks even more trying to play the part your not. One day a guy will notice you, if it's not now, then dont' worry! They'll be swarming one day! :D ... Mainly be YOURSELF... you probly have a great attitude, personility and what-not. So enjoy being you... if you want someone to notice you invite them over for a get together, go up to them and introduce yourself (be a lil outgoing)... If you can't then have a friend introduce you somehow... :) ... Good luck!
2006-09-28 18:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by sweetsuezq4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. If he doesn't like you for the person that you are then he isn't worth your time. Believe me. It's just as bad for skinny girls too. Guys are narrow minded when it comes to meeting girls. Until you find the guy that cares about your personality rather than how you look, then don't worry about it. Most guys are just a waste of time anyway. Your man will come along sooner or later.
2006-09-28 18:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by sexy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a plus size female all you have to do is dress classy, show some skin on top,less skin on bottom and make the outfit sell you. Confidence can get anyones attention. All you have to do is step outside of yourself and create a new attitude. Soon people will be able to see you for who are and not your weight.
2006-09-28 18:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mycan Moneek 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah chances are with you being 4'11.5" and 104 lbs you are not at all fat. Sure guys notice things like arm fat but does it really bother us? In my opinion no.
2016-03-18 02:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the most important thing is the love not the physical appearance.don't trust boys who love your beauty.LOVE should come from heart.you will get someone who really love you.
try to lose your weight too.it's good for your health as well
2006-09-28 18:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Natasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not about how fat u are or how skinny u wanna be, its about your swagger, your personality, and style, if that doesnt work, cook him something to eat, lol food is a way to a mans heart!!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 19:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_solo2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you're comfortable with yourself, you shouldn't have problems going to talk with him. If you're not comfortable with yourself, then do something about it. Size really does not matter, unless it's your health is in jeopardy
2006-09-28 18:45:22 · answer #11 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋