a "friend" of mine - went to a family graduation party.
He is married. In his 30s.
He has a crush on his wifes niece, who was 19 at the time. Its just an innocent thing - he would never pursue her.
The niece drinks too much, too fast...by 9pm - she is passed out.
The guys wife, and the rest of the family, want to stay at the wedding - so he offers to ride with the passed-out niece in the cab and take her home.
ALL innocent at that point.
BUT...when he gets home with her - and carries her into the house, her dress comes 1/2 undone.
She is on the couch, 1/2 naked. As passed out as a person can be....looking absolutely beautiful...
WHAT DO YOU DO???
2006-09-28 17:38:24 · 30 answers · asked by daves_1348 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Keep her covered with a blanket, and go to the couch in the hall and sleep.
2006-09-28 18:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very unfortunate situation, and only happened because of a very stupid guy. He is married, and apparently isn't very set on being faithful to his wife. My golden rule: NOTHING is "just an innocent thing" with a guy. Nothing at all (remember that). He should never have taken her home; he should have steered clear from this obviously dangerous situation. And now, he is in a horrible position. But still, any half-decent male (especially a married one) would just walk away. Then again... any half-decent male (especially a married one) would have forseen the danger to his marraige and just forgot about the niece all-together. If this married man in his 30s is willing to take advantage of a half-naked, volnurable, passed out 19-year-old, he is truly sick.
2006-09-29 00:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jeremy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well ... he already tripped on his dick when he took her home alone ..... never get left along with a drunk or passed out member of the opposite sex ... even if you don't ... you will create the impression you did!! Follow me So far .....
Always insist on a (female or male) to go with as a chaperon sorta ... and never under any circumstances act on the impulses of mini-me ... That little fella with ruin ya if ya let him!
However ... finding your self with a drunk half naked chick on a sofa (to whom your related by marriage) ya better get a witness ya didn't sample the goodies or you just left your self wide open for those Monday morning quarter backs ....
Or ya could just cover her with a sheet or blanket ...lock the door and run !
2006-09-29 00:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by John 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would cover her back up. For one hes married, he should touch another women in any kind of sexual way at all. I will admit its kind of hard not to look but that human nature. One of the ten commandments states that "don't want what your neighbors have." That is including your neighbors wife (or even husband). Everyone is neighbors in this world. And second she is hes wife's niece, shes family that just doesn't sound right. I'm sorry it just doesn't but that's my opinion on that situation.
2006-09-29 00:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by cobra69_68467 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be a real man and put a blanket over the 1/2 naked girl until she's sober enough to go home. That's a real gentleman.
2006-09-29 00:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mysique_X 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You put a blanket on her and go home!
Unless you are such a loser that you would take advantage of a person when they are down and helpless. In that case you should take her wallet too. After all, why just be a rapist when you can be a thief too.
Have a good day.
2006-09-29 00:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by tcb9020 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lay her in bed, put a glass of water and some aspirin on the table, and go home. I would never be able to stand myself if I took advantage of her and the situation like that. What did you do btw?
2006-09-29 00:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by ScotOS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt mess around with my wife's niece, and I wouldnt take advantage of any girl (no matter what age) while they are passed out.
2006-09-29 00:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Zero Cool 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well I hope he didnt do any thing because that would be rape but nasty men or F U C K ED up men would do some thing to her me that is grows and if you married you shouldent even have to think about that S H I T and he was that much older to man MISS ME WIT DIS BULL S H I T
2006-09-29 01:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by BIGDIGGA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being honest, being married, in that circumstance, I have personally been in that situation many a time. Alcohol in the mind gives one many thoughts without guilt. If it were me, I would have asked someone to go along, just to help, but just for that reason. You, could have incistently, caringly offered to go alson, or mention it to someone who would go with them
2006-09-29 00:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋