ok, my boss tells me to do things all the time, he is one of those guys that has a lot going on but just blurts things out like hey steph you need to this and this and this and this.......and i have to ask him what did you say again and that sends him throw the ruff. i am not trying to piss him off but man i am always in the middel of something and that never matters and that pisses me off he said he told his wife i perpare to tell steph $hit twice and that burned my @ss.mind you i work with all men i am the only chick...well anywhoo do i need hearing ads or what or his he just being a @ss?
2006-09-28 17:10:27 · 5 answers · asked by steph h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Look girl ima tell you like i tell my wife and like my coach told me he would not ask you to do s h i t if he did not think you could handle it I bet he really likes you he wants you to move up to a higher spot my wife is in your exact position and I told her what I told you and now her and her boss are real coo just show him you can handle it
2006-09-28 17:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. Not all managers are made the same, and the choice of a qualified/professional manager to work for is not in our hands. Sad but true, this is the real world. Been through it myself (many times)!
Based on your details - 1. your manager either knew nothing (and delegating you all the work, which is good as in the process you learn more), 2. does not like you personally (only you will know, and if need to, ask to speak to him about the issue and resolve it), 3. bad communication/listening skills (which he doesn't realised!). Ask to talk to him about it, that you need clearer instructions/details to fulfil the work.
In the meantime, accept all work orders, prioritise them and meet the deadlines. Start looking out for other opportunities (we do not have to put up with managers who should not be where they are and the grass is always greener for those who know their work).
Hang on there, and good luck :-)
2006-09-28 17:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by TK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why you are stressing is because your simply not speaking my mind. Let you boss know how you feel. If things go wrong that's their problem not yours. Always address the problem head on, never let it get to the point were it is stressing you. Stress can kill you.Remember that !!!
2006-09-28 17:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mysique_X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another job, even if you do like this one. Life's too short, ya' know!
2006-09-28 17:18:27 · answer #4 · answered by The Invisible Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a recorder, when he is talking to you record, then you can play back what he ask you, without have to ask him again.
2006-09-28 17:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by queenmidas1014 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋