Well, I was being told lately by many adults that it's better to be single forever than to commit and marry. They say that a relationship is sweet at first but when you're tied in marriage, things will change and you'll regret that you've ever married. Lately, I also overheard some women discussing these things to others.
Though I understand their point, I can't say I fully understand it beacause I have never been in a relationship; that's why I'd also like to hear from your own views regarding this. Thanks!
2006-09-28 17:07:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE, BUT IT YOU ARE TRUELY COMMITED TO THE UNION. BUT MARRIAGE MEAN DIFFENT
THINGS TO DIFFENT PEOPLE.. IT WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING
FOR IF YOU READY FOR THE COMMITED, BUT IF YOU NOT
THEN SINGLE IS BEST PLACE TO BE UNTIL YOU READY
FOR IT. I THINK THAT A LOT OF PEOLE JUST DONT REALLY
UNDERSTAND WHAT MARRIAGE REALLY IS ABOUT,
IT A COMMITED FOR LIFE. AS THE UNION IS TILL DEATH
DO PART. SO JUST LISTEN TO YOUR HEART AND WHEN'
YOU READY AND YOU FIND THAT SPECIAL LOVE IN YOUR
LIFE THEN YOU WILL KNOW WHAT TO DO.
2006-09-28 17:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are often women loving men more than the man can love the woman. If your in a relationship, be aware of it. If it's got problems and you often find yourself unhappy then move on. It's hard but for the best. However, if you find someone that treats you as good as he did on day one after you've given him sex, after you've been together for a year, and after he's drank with his buddie and didnt go home with someone else. You'd better keep him. Most girls put alot of effort into a relationship hoping it will change something. No matter how much a guy loves you his habits will never change. If you don't hold your hand or respect your desires, make an effort to be close to you, put you first, help you without being asked... then he never will. You must evaulate him and his motives and decide if you can live like that for the rest of your life. Give it 6 months, if you dont think you could live with him forever move on. If you think you can wait for another year or so until your sure. There is no rush but no reason to waste time and get to attached either.
2006-09-29 00:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by Hottestwallflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is hard work... you have to be commited... it is especially hard when you are the only one commited and that is usually the man... statistic show that married people live longer and are healthier than the singles... you have to follow your heart for you may be one of the lucky ones that gets to be with someone that loves you til death do you part. I believe it's best to wait till you are in your late 20s to mid 30s... get your education and career going and have a good time before you settle done. But remember to live how you want to... not what others expect... Good Luck!!!
2006-09-29 00:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is true remember everyone has two sides to them the side that they want you to see and the hidden side ,temper problems ,drinking ,drugs are just some of the thing that are on the hidden side .it is true that some people regret marry cause when you marry you are supposed to help take care of each other even money wise ,when you are singe it is easier to manage money ,you can do what you want when you want ,youcan not do that when you are married unless it is an open marrage (which is not a good idea at all)
2006-09-29 00:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by dee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is different for every woman, there is no set answer, i thnk some women have less than happy relationships with thier husbands before they marry but marry anyhow then wonder why it didnt work, i think some like to think of as marriage as a consipacy so they never have to admit to failure or to start over, but you need to find how relationships and marriage work for yourself, not by anyone who is bitter or not thinking of your best.
2006-09-29 00:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by los ollie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask yourself, will be happy if you will grow old and alone..
some would suggest that since now a days separation, divorce is rampant but basically its a matter of decision
hey you will not loose if you would love someone.. its a fulfillment at least you know how to love.
be mature in facing these realities. NO MAN IS AN ISLAND...
we need man,, we should love someone.. to fulfill us
2006-09-29 00:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by crystalink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to keep your hopes up I guess that is why when a marriage fails people keep on looking! Looking for LOVE!
2006-09-29 00:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to everyone else try and listen to your heart. Your heart will tell you when youv'e met the right person to marry.
2006-09-29 00:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋