ok, my boss tells me to do things all the time, he is one of those guys that has a lot going on but just blurts things out like hey steph you need to this and this and this and this.......and i have to ask him what did you say again and that sends him throw the ruff. i am not trying to piss him off but man i am always in the middel of something and that never matters and that pisses me off he said he told his wife i perpare to tell steph $hit twice and that burned my @ss.mind you i work with all men i am the only chick...well anywhoo do i need hearing ads or what or his he just being a @ss?
2006-09-28 17:04:31 · 5 answers · asked by steph h 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
He is just an ***. You should talk to him and ask him to email a list of things he wants done and maybe ask him to prioritize them. This way there is no "you never told me that" type thing going on. Email is good because you have a record of everything he wants done. That way if he forgets to tell you, it's his fault.
It will also be easier on you. You don't have to keep all these different things in your head. You can look at the list, do something, and then go back to the list.
2006-09-28 17:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by GEE-GEE 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to give u a chance to write down his requests or he can give u a list if not ask him if he can give u 2 mins of his time and tell him that hes rushing to much to slow down before he has a heart attack smile as if its a joke even giggle the ask him if before he inter rupps what ur doing if he can give u a few seconds to finnish if this dont work when he starts yelpping orders just pick up a phone hold ur hand up to him hell stop with surprice pick up a pen and paper pass it to him or just say ill get back to u on that my boss is in a rush ill call u back asap this will get his attention if not just stop him in the middle of what hes doing and tell him what hes doing to u good luck remember this he human to so be firm but gracefull
2006-09-29 00:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by drvshaftdrew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every boss is stress. You just need to learn how he operates and move along with him. when he starts speaking stop what you are doing and listen. The stress will be less as opposed to continue and then ask him what he wants. Remember he is the best person to give you a recommendation so be on good terms
2006-09-29 00:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by ngina 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ahh.. yes. He expects you to drop everything when he is talking! If you see him approaching, get out a pen and paper and write down what he tells you to do... then repeat it back to him... tell him, "I just want to make sure I've got this right..." I've had bosses just like this... they are just so disorganized that they think of things for you to do the minute they see you...and everything is a priority with them!!! You being prepared to "hear" him with pen and paper will surprise the heck out of him.. and he might actually slow down and be more specific! If he gets mad at you for repeating what he has said, just tell him that you want to make sure you get it right...
2006-09-29 00:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pray to God about this matter. Nothing is too big for God. You know, we have to humble ourselves. This might frustrate you hearing this @ this time, but overcome it. Humbling ourselves allow us to see ourselves (frame of mind) as well as others. Remember, we can do all things through Christ Jesus who strengthens us.
2006-09-29 00:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by man uv God 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋