I currently have a girlfriend but she's very strict towards me which I don't like. But do love her still. When I go out, she often wants to tagged along or even asked me the mms her the pics which I with my friends. Currently,we using 3G phone and because of it, she wants me to show her whenever I go, who I'm with and what I'm doing. She sometimes will read my sms and check through my hp too. Worst still, I don't know how she got my email password, she could easily go in and check my mail no matter how many times I change my pw...What should I do?
2006-09-28 17:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is not cool. She really has a problem and you need to speak with her about respecting you and your privacy. She needs therapy. No one should be treated this way.
2006-09-28 17:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might wanna get a handle on this girl... I am a female but i know that men need their space and so do women. She is obviously invading yours a little to much which can mean shes cheating and is accusing you because she has a guilty conscious or she doesn't trust you because of something you did or somebody in her past might have did to make her not trust men. But for whatever her reasons are you should definitely have a talk with her and reassure her there is nothing to be worried about but she needs to give you some room to breath a little. I have been married for 4 years and been with him for 7 years and I have always believed that people need there space or they'll never make it. Talk to this girl! oh and for your email password, just make another account and make the password something she would never guess.
oh yah its not that big of a deal for her to want to know where you are, just in case she needs to talk to you or whatever, but if you stop by a friends house on the way home you shouldn't be getting the 3rd degree about it
2006-09-29 00:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you given her any reason not to trust you? IF you have not given her a reason, she is just jealous. People like that usually get worse over time and they drive you nuts. Talk to her about it, and tell her that she is smothering you, and give you some space. If she does not back down, and stop being so mis trusting, its probably best to walk away from this relationship.
2006-09-29 00:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Snick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I*m going to say that she has a trust issue. it just might be how she does things. shemay have had issues in the past liers and cheats, so this is how she deals with it. talk to her about it.Did you ever give her a reason NOT to trust you? ask her why she has to know who, what, where, and Why every time you just want to go out. talk with her thats the best you can do.
2006-09-29 00:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by marisa k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her.......or comfort her. Sound to me like she feels insecure about you. She loves you, and now she is testing to make sure you love her, and she is also testing her limits.
Just say "Sweetie, I love you and you know that, but I feel that you are being a little protective. I think it's adorable that you are so concearned, but I need to have my own space.I love spending time with you, and you are a really fun person to hang out with, but I need to go do my own things."
Make sure to say in in a way that she doesen't think you are mad or annoyed with her, because she might freak & think your gonna dump her, then get worse with this situation.
2006-09-29 00:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound too good. You need to assure her you won't betray her love. You also need to tell her that you are not comfortable with her looking thru your stuffs. If you have nothing to hide, just let her have it her way. She will probably be convinced and stops doing that.
2006-09-29 03:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by axix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it & tell her how you feel,If she doesn't change after awhile (this is going to sound blunt) but you can find you another girl that will respect and trust you.
2006-09-29 00:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O man this is pain in the @s. Joules people are so bad to handle. Good lack.
2006-09-29 00:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get rid of her, she sounds like a freak
2006-09-29 00:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by misti c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her about herself
2006-09-29 00:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋