2006-09-28 16:28:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unless you are in school or work around a lot of people at work, I have to admit that it's hard. I think school has always been the best way to meet people. I met some of the best friends of my life in college. I have also made great friends through work. If work and school aren't possible places to meet people for you, then church is always a great place. Be yourself and let people know that you are new to the city...there are always nice people around that will like to help new people feel welcome in a new city. Get out and have fun!
2006-09-28 16:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by neelc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, it's hard. You don't say how old you are. If you are young and in school, it's hard breaking into a new school, but once you do, the problem resolves itself.
If you are an adult you have to look for friends where you work and invite one or two out to lunch or coffee and/or lunch. Go to church of your choice, join a club of something you like doing, join sports teams, the places you go, I think, should be places you like going. But I think the key thing to making friends is this, be friendly to others, other people can not ever have enough friends and people respond when you reach out a little. In other words, people who have been living in a city for twenty five years need friends and are lonely too and they find it hard to make friends in their own community. Childhood friends move away, have other interests and priorities, have falling outs etc. Everyone wants a new friend and a lot of people will want you for one.
2006-09-28 16:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about having similar interest with people. Plus you have to hit the hot spots in town, don't expect to make new friends staying at home. When you move to the new city get a local paper and look in the event section, find out major events going on in the city ,show up looking cute and sexy, and mingle. Its all about marketing your friendship.
2006-09-28 16:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mysique_X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at school, at the gym, neighbors, family's friends or acquaintances, at a place you go to often (ie. grocery, bank, etc)
if you are one of those people who helps others with all kinds of things (ie. moving, building, etc)
there are lot of places and it takes some time.
2006-09-28 16:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring the old one with you.
Don't stay at home and wait for them.
Live the computer and go outside to find new one.
2006-09-28 16:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and be polite . show respect to others .always smile for every one or may be just nod your head as if you are acknowledging them when you see them o if you are walking on the same side of the road/street.you can also offer help if they need to.
2006-09-28 16:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by jocelyn o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that happened to me!!! just be your self and there will be someone. i met my bff in math class. but um just be yourself!!!! i feell your not pain but i know how u feel. i was left out the only one there at skool just sitting around then bam!!! 7th period and i got a bff. the time will come. be patient. good luck.
2006-09-28 16:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and about you can talk to people anny wher trust ne your get frinds
just try goodlook ok
2006-09-28 16:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st- Be yourself
2nd- Place yourself in environments that are conducive to meeting others.....
2006-09-28 16:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by bart4play 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out wat people are into the same stuff as you plus its your chance to start over so you can be who ever you want to be
2006-09-28 16:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by iamrawrness. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋