Well when you first think that you were pregnant and your boyfriend tells you to have an abortion but you dont care about what he said and you still want the baby. My first question is Would you lie to him that you are not pregnant to get him off your back???
If you are in your 5th month would you at least tell him that you are or do you continue to hide it???
2006-09-28 16:18:03 · 23 answers · asked by thien_Vo_VO 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
what i would do is tell him the truth you know what im pregnant and im going to have MY BABY, and i would't care what he said if he didnt want it i would say well bye bye because you are not worth killing my baby. in my opinion i would keep the baby and i would tell the truth.
2006-09-28 16:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by brenda_zamudio2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your boyfriend. You're not going to be able to hide being pregnant or giving birth for that matter. Plus, I don't think at five months an abortion is an option anymore. What about adoption?
If you want this baby and you're prepared to take care of it by yourself, then bite the bullet and tell him how you feel and what you want. If it's meant to be, he'll stick around. If not, well. . .maybe it's for the best. That's not exactly the kind of father figure you want around your child anyway, is it?
2006-09-28 23:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by free2b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want the baby, have it. He cannot stop you. As a matter of fact, I'd get as far from him as I possibly could. If he wanted you to abort it then he obviously does NOT want to be a father.
If you are already in your 5th month an abortion would be very traumatic and very bad, and they may tell you it's too late.
2006-09-28 23:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think any doctor worth his degree would perform an abortion in the 5th month of gestation unless the mother and child were in danger of both dieing if the pregnancy continued
Other than that, you need to be honest with the father of this child. It is both of yours, after all.
2006-09-28 23:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by cynthetiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to kiss it. Abortion is not the answer. I would tell him that its my baby, I'm keeping it weather you like it or not, get over it. I wouldn't hide it at all. Then I would make him pay child support. It was his decision as well to have sex, he will have to deal with it! You are doing the right thing by keeping it, but don't hide it from him, tell him to get over it.
2006-09-28 23:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you "lovesugar" for your answer! Boys dont need to be thrown into parenthood tho birth control should have been used. IF this girl wants her child and seems to at that, SHE is taking the responsibility of herself and that child within her, soooo she shouldnt force ANYTHING on the guy.
Believe it or not terminating pregnancy can be done up until the 22 week. Though I feel that is a bit extreme.
2006-09-29 01:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Word of advise, tell him to screw off! Get away from him and raise that baby on your own! It will be hard emotionallly and financially but if you hang in there it will be worth it! if you think he won't leave you alone, then hide it or tell him it is someone elses! He doesn't desrve to be a Dad! Good Luck and God Bless you for making the right choice!
2006-09-28 23:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by *~BETHY~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him the truth. If your five months along your belly is really going to start poking out. He will most likely come around after seeing the baby and if he doesn't then screw him. When you meet your baby for the first time you'll find out what true love really is.
2006-09-28 23:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by dumbblond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you will never lose custody of your child for not telling the father your pregnant.And you should definatly take him for child support.It would be the right thing to do to tell him,he's going to find out soon anywAY and atleast if you tell him now he will have some time to get it together.
2006-09-28 23:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by mommyofsix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiding it is a bad idea. He can file for custody because of your lieing. You see the court wouldn't like it that your a lier. Hes going to have to know sometime. I really hope your not going to ask this guy for child support after hiding this pregnancy. Its reasons like this girls shouldnt have babies.
2006-09-28 23:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋