Last night he asked me to make love but i rejected him unintentionally. He was angry with me and until now he still doesn't want to talk to me. What should i do?
2006-09-28 16:14:52 · 28 answers · asked by Retno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually this is your right to say yes or no..i mean it depends on the situation, if you are not in the mood or you sick or not feeling well, just say in light and sweet voice, and offer him some other time to make it out..
Time will tell baby, and i bet he's still need you for EVERY THING..I don't believe if he wouldn't forgive you just merely because of such silly thing!! Come on, he's big man now, not a big baby any more, give him some space first, let him think over it. But if you don't want to make it worse, talk to him, ask him to take shower together tonite..I bet it'll work out..good luck..
2006-09-28 17:17:30 · answer #1 · answered by yanti b 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You said that you unintentionally rejected him. That happens in all relationships. Have dinner ready when your husband returns from work, put the kids to bed early, and take that time for you and your husband. Get a glass f tea and sit outside under the stars and talk to your husband. Explain that it wasn't that you were rejecting him but that at the time you were so tired, or have other things such as bills on your mind and that you couldn't fully concentrate on pleasing him. When you married you still retained that friendship. So sit and talk as friends. Tell him your hopes and dreams for the future and the ones that he has already fulfilled in you. Explain to him how important it is that when you are together that you want to be able to give him your complete attention. Good Luck
2006-09-28 23:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by sheila s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,If your husband is acting like that just cause u where not in the mood then he really needs to get a grip.I mean really just because one person not in the mood does not mean the other should hold it against them.I mean really u need to talk to him and don't feel u have done anything wrong.I know there will come a day or night that he will not be int he mood and u will have to be OK with it and respect his feelings he needs to grow up and realize the world does not revolve around him.U both need to be grateful u still have each other than mad over simple things that can easily be handled.
2006-09-28 23:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you reject someone unintentionally? Especially in your case. You either wanted to have sex, or you didn't. And you should make that perfectly clear. Just simply tell him "Honey, I wasn't in the mood". Reassure him that it was nothing he did and you're sorry if you hurt his feelings, but these things happen. Then offer to make it up to him. If that doesn't work, give him his space....he's bound to want it again at some point in time, which means he's not going to be mad forever.
2006-09-28 23:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, after he's had some alone time(don't bug him let him work it through for himself), he'll probably snap out of it and then the two of you can talk. Just remember that although you have the right to say no, we guys get feeling rejected mighty easily ,so the way these things are handled is important.
2006-09-28 23:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by ron k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am sure I will get slammed by other guys but what the h e l l Don't get all worked up over it. Us guys are a little touchy when it comes to being told...umm...not tonight dear....but as soon as you say.....TONIGHT...we forget about it lol. If your not in the mood your not in the mood. Personally I would rather wait till my wife is in the mood....other wise its just well not the same. There is nothing like when your women is REALLY into it....so like I said he will get over it...just make sure that when you are in the mood you show him what the difference is lol
2006-09-28 23:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your sorry...you just werent in the mood. Not everyone is in the mood when the ohter partner is..! Just give it some time dont go suck up to him because you shouldnt have to..Hes your husband .. your his wife! There will be many more bumps in the road TRUST ME! Let him feel bad for once! I mean ur not just there for sex ur his wife...
2006-09-28 23:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by girlpressure 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fix him a romantic dinner, make sure you are wearing next to nothing, after dinner honey rock his world, if you don't there are ladies out there waiting, that will not say no. keep the romance there. now if you don't want him, then keep saying no. if you got a good man , take the time to fulfill his needs.
2006-09-28 23:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by queenmidas1014 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up. And you start putting out to your husband. Don't make the poor guy go without!
2006-09-28 23:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUst explain to him you were not in the mood. He should understand I' m sure he's felt very tired or somthing before everyone does sometimes in there life. If he loves you he will understand.
2006-09-28 23:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by GHOST T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋