HELP!!!
2006-09-28 16:02:47 · 15 answers · asked by harkinsd2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, find out if the guy likes you too, not just as a friend, but as a girlfriend. You should not make conclusions hastily just because he flirts with you. Ask yourself, "Is he flirting with a lot of girls, or only with me?", because some guys don't realize that their flirtatious/charming style are being taken seriously by some girls. (Guys and girls do not think the same way.)
If you find out that he doesn't like you, then accept that. Decide whether you want to wait or to move on. But don't ruin his relationship with the other girl, because you're not going to win him that way.
If, on the other hand, you find out that he LIKES you, then think about it very well. Some guys want to be really sure first if they are going to win the new girl once they dismiss the old one. Playing it safe, if you know what I mean. It's up to you if you're going to accept that kind of guy or not. Let him know how you feel (either through actions or words), and see how he reacts to it or what he's going to do about it. But let him finish his current relationship first. Let him do the work. Don't meddle. You can wait, but put a limit to yourself. You don't want to wait forever.
2006-09-28 16:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by gracie_lou 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem right now. But as much as I like the guy, I can't help thinking that if he broke up with her to be with me, I would be always suspicious and jealous because I know he is capable of flirt with other girls while having a girlfriend. It's a tough one.
2006-09-28 16:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by latgal73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. He's NOT important. 1. He has a girlfriend. 2. He sounds like a player. Think of this. If he was with you, what makes you think he wouldn't flirt with some other girl? Which brings to answer #2: He's a player. What makes you think you're the only one he flirts with? Obviously he must not care too much about his girlfriend, and he's probably flirting with you and 10 other girls. And like he doesn't care about his girlfriend, what makes you think he would care about your feelings?
2006-09-28 16:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sweetness572♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get out of there!!! Sounds like he's an all around flirt or he may just be a player. Either way it's no good, 1- because he has a girlfriend and 2- because he may just be playing you, his girlfriend, and maybe even other girls for that matter.
Good luck
2006-09-28 16:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont fall for a flirting type of guy, guys love to flirt with girls they dont like, that is there nature,it does not mean that you have a chance and that he likes you if he likes to flirt with you, its just his way of entertaining himself at the expense of you, beleive me i have been studying men, you dont mean anything to him, men with girlfriends continue flirting, but at the end of the day the woman they truly love is the one they will think about, youre just one of those women he had flirted with...go find yourself a man who really likes you and sees you for who you are without games and flirtations, guard your heart
2006-09-28 16:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you might like a guy who is so willing to step out on his current girlfriend. If he was your boyfriend he'd be doing the same thing with someone else.
2006-09-28 16:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he knows hes flirting with you
2006-09-28 16:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by super midget man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm able to work out that u extremely love her. U can't enable her bypass out with the guy that she cheated on you with. i be attentive to this shouldn't make u sense greater advantageous yet there's a stable probability that she continues to be cheating on you. i think of that u could persist along with her and don't do something to deliver interest to your self if u see her doing something irrelevant. only get the evidence u prefer and that i think of that u could wreck up along with her and pass on or a minimum of attempt to head on. while you're unhappy with what occurs then u truthfully could head on. only attempt to get the flexibility to head on. additionally if she loves u, she might make u chuffed. She would not basically think of approximately her happiness. it style of feels as though she's taking income of you cuz she is acquainted with you adore her lots. stable luck.
2016-10-01 11:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he does that.....tell him it confuses you. Though it is flattering, you wouldn't like it if he were with you and flirting with another woman. That should get the conversation started nicely.
2006-09-28 16:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on dont respond to him unless u want to be used by a guy like that
2006-09-28 16:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by mrdeeds_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋