i read all the time that women want a man to be romantic, loving and sexual. but when a man does this then they want to chnge him. i drive a truck and im gone 3 weeks at a time. i met a woman who is 52 im 46. I always give her flowers, tell her she's beautiful, sex and that i love her constantly. when we first me our sex life was great and i do everything i can to please her. the problem was this is not good enough. now she has decided that our relationship was based on sex in the beginning and now it needs to based on love. ok i thought that they were one in the same. i still do the things i did in the beginning, but if i mention sex she clams up. my point is what do women whant all these things from a man, then when they get one who will do them its not good enough. also it seems to me that women want a man to communicate with them but when we try women get mad at us. any thoughts
2006-09-28
15:56:34
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keithy
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➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men often think love and sex are the same and they are not for women. She might be feeling used for sex if you are gone three weeks out of the month and see her only a few days a month and want sex. The way to this woman's heart, or back to her heart, is to let her know in little ways every day that she is in your thoughts. Call her, drop a card in the mail a couple of times a week to say you are thinking of her or that you saw a nice sunset while driving and thought of her, or something reminded you of her.
She wants to know she means more to you than just sex. This is what women want: TO FEEL CHERISHED AND ADORED. If you make that woman feel special you will have to peel her off of you when you roll back into town. Try it.
2006-09-28 16:03:03
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answered by Anonymous
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They want a man who has a purpose and a plan, plus romantic and loving more than sexual. Maybe you make her feel like an object. Im just trying to think of how she may feel, its not like Im putting you down or anything. I really hope you all can work things out.
2006-09-28 16:11:33
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answered by me 2
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Women want stability, a rock they can lean on and who can support them through good times and bad. They want love and respect, someone they can see living the rest of their lives with, having children with. They want open and honest communication. If a relationship is based on just sex, then it won't go much further.
2006-09-28 16:14:56
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answered by brainy_blonde 3
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We want stability and some on ewe can grow old with because after you have had sex with some one countless times what is left to do but talk.
2006-09-28 16:00:12
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answered by tamara s 2
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great sex a good dad a sometime cook a handyman a mechanic a listener and a friend I think I covered all the bases, : )
2006-09-28 16:01:44
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answered by LaLa 3
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I think some women have trouble accepting a good thing. What I mean is, when things are going really good, then we think that there must be something wrong. Its pessimistic thinking, but true.
2006-09-28 16:00:30
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answered by JC 7
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Women are from the Hell. You are never good enough.If you try the best of you and become the house dog to lessen and do. you still not good enough.
The best is not married them in first place.
If you have one g/f not leave together only separately.
Every one pay own bells.
Have a freedom is what life is about.
Love and sex.
2006-09-28 16:07:30
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answered by Toto 6
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You will want to read two books:
Captivating by John Eldredge and Wild at Heart by John Eldredge.
This will explain everything about what my heart wants.
2006-09-28 16:24:36
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answered by sxysparkler 2
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Every woman I have known has been crazy, some in similar ways some in others. Yet still all crazy. All you can do is look for a "Crazy" you can tolerate.
2006-09-28 17:45:42
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answered by Anonymous
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If you could answer your own questions, you would be so much closer to reality. Sorry to be harsh but you should dwell on that statement for a minute. I hope that helps.
2006-09-28 16:05:45
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answered by Wizdumb 2
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