my mom thinks i am fat. i am 5 ft 4 and 125 pounds she constintally tells me i am fat. Is this normal?

Answer 1

Listen to evrything else she tell syou, but DON"T listen to her in this case. You're perfectly thin, not too thin, but shapely thin.

Answer 2

not in anyway is it normal for a mother to call her daughter fat it sounds like your mother has her own insecurities and she is taking it out on you and 5 4 and 125 is far from fat that is your ideal body weight. i have heard of mothers sometimes being jeous of their daughters an that may be the case, little does she know it can cause deep emotional scars an low self esteem im sure you look great and i know a mothers opinion counts alot but try an not let it bother you or maybe point out to her that it hurts your feelings. your not over weight and even if you where who cares? im sorry she is saying that to you and i hope it doesnt effect you any more than im sure it already has

Answer 3

I'm the same weight and height.. NO THATS NOT FAT AT ALL!! If you went to a doctor they would tell you you were normal weight.... Don't listen to her! People can't even tell i'm 125 they think i'm like 115 and i'm like "Nooo"... for that height you can be atleast 150 pounds so yeah you're healthy!

Answer 4

You are not fat!!! And its not normal for your mom to tell you you're fat either. If you feel insecure about your weight have a professional test your body fat. A healthy woman should be no more than 22% body fat.

Answer 5

If you are actually the height and weight that you say, then no..you are not fat. But even if you are overweight, all that matters is how you feel about yourself. Exercise and a healthy diet are important even if you are normal weight. I think that it is really weird that your mom seems to be on you back about it. That doesn't seem mentally healthy.

Answer 6

It depends what the average weight is for your height . Ask your
Dr. or there's a web site that you can go under to find out. I think
it's Med.com. And I don't think that's nice of your mom to tell you
that your fat. She can rephrase that. If your young be more active.
And if your 18 and older join a health club.

Answer 7

first of all the first person that answered that china doll person..should get a life..people should never be that rude..if you don't want to answer the question then don't..anyway sweetie..you are not fat..and your mother should be slapped..i don't know what i would have done if my mom would have ever said anything like that to me..125 is the perfect weight for your height..don't let that get you down..if you are comfortable with you weight that's all that matters...keep your head up and be proud of who and what you are...

Answer 8

You're not fat. Not everyone carries weight the same way, but you aren't even slightly overweight. Your BMI is normal. (BMI is Body Mass Index, in case you're wondering)
If you want to tone your body up just eat a healthy diet and get moderate exercise. Your mother shouldn't be telling you you're fat when you're not.

Answer 9

for a girl weighing 125 lbs at 5ft 4in. is really good! very healthy! well actually, the proper weight is about 120-125 lbs, so u are doing fine, don't stress out. ur mom is just being rude, parents should't tell their kids their fat, which ur not! im sorry about how ur mom is, but u need to have a talk wit her so she can stop putting u down.♥if i helped please rate me!

Answer 10

It's only normal for your mom to be concerned, but there's a time when she needs to back off. Are you happy with your size? If so tell your mom and forget about it, if not hit the gym and cut out a few carbs.

Answer 11

OMG there is no reason for your mother to be calling you fat! 125 isn't that big,, and your mom shouldnt even tell her own child that she is fat! That is very rude. im sorry but it is!