assuming he never knew you when you were fat, do you ever wonder how things would have been different, or if he would have noticed you?
2006-09-28 15:52:27 · 9 answers · asked by Nicoletta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my man would have never noticed me when I was fat, he would dent this but I know..I know his type, and that is me now, not me then. It may sound shallow, but I am OK with it, I did not like me like that, how could expect someone else to?
2006-09-28 16:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The truth of the matter is nobody has compassion for anything they dont have to deal with themselves. Why would a thin person be attracted to an overweight person ? Once these overweight people lose weight, do they go after overweight people or the people they always wished they could date ? Overweight people dont like the way they look. Why do you blame thin people for feeling the same way ? If you were never overweight you would have never dated an overweight person. That's just how it is. Would a non-smoker date a smoker ?? Its the same thing.
2006-09-28 23:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think my man prolly would have never noticed me if i was still fat when he met me.....seeings how when we met it was a S.....e........you know the last letter........thing anyway and then we got to know each other and now two children and three years later i am back to my old size before we met and our "drive" is still there but i think it is because he has put on a few pounds too. but we have love and kids also but with out our children im sure it would have fizzled out long ago if i gained some pounds without having kids.
2006-09-28 23:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by buggs_snails_puppytails 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've been fat before.. I think if my husband now met me before when I was fat he would still liked or loved me.. its because he isn't the type who looks on their appearance but instead he looks to their attitude, personality.. I would always ask him what if I got fat and even fatter than before would he still remain my husband and he would always answer me,"YES! No matter how you look like..I would Always Love you."
2006-09-28 23:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found that when I lost 60 lbs people treated me much different. When I wqas much heavier people didn't pay attention at all. YES, things would have been different
2006-09-28 23:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by was44+ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
man here. and in my opion a real man loves a woman for herself in my opion? fact/
2006-09-28 23:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea, i do- so i ask him y he likes me. if he says b/c ur hott, then u no hes vain and shallow and wouldn't have liked u. and then u dump him :)
2006-09-28 22:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, if I wasn't obese, I'm sure my hubby would still find me attractive.
2006-09-28 22:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by superboredom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you would have acted different
2006-09-28 23:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋