2006-09-28 15:41:43 · 43 answers · asked by snowy dragon 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No, you should have one out of love and respect for him! You should have one so he will not be required to give up his lifestyle to support this kid. If you do it, he will love you more!
Are ye a wee bit short on yer noodles, lassie?
2006-09-28 15:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Screwball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm going to assume that you are serious. NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO That will be something that you will regret for the rest of your life!! It's not like flushing his class ring or starting a rumour! I know that it's hard when a pregnancy blind sides you and I know that it's hard when you're all alone. TRUST ME! I had an abortion when I was 16. I am not ashamed to say this now because I have made my peace with it. I made a mistake like we all do, but it has been my mission since then to save other girls from the pain that I went through knowing what I had done. If you cannot or don't want to keep the baby, give it up for adoption. In some cases, you can even put in the contract that you want to be kept informed of the baby and want to be able to see it. Most adoptive parents are totally ok with this! I took a life. It had a heart and a soul. Not one year goes by that I think about that baby being one year older. I now have three kids of my own and four foster kids and my life is a joy. You do not want to do this! PLEASE don't do this! If you need help, I will help, if you need to talk, I will listen.
2006-09-28 15:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by glitz_and_glitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think that would work? Like so many others have said, you were old enough to have sex and be in some sort of a relationship, so step up to your responsibilities and have the baby. Perhaps next time you might think twice before jumping into bed and getting pregnant. If you do not wish to keep the baby, adopt it out to a family who really want a baby. I'm adopted, my mother was going to have an abortion, and yes that was going to be me. But she didn't and she gave me a chance at life. This I thank her everyday for. I am now a mother to a 1 year old cherub. I misscarried the first time and our baby was hard enough to get. SO....have a think about really what you are doing. Take your boyfriend out of the equation, its no longer about you or him, its about that little helpless soul who is inside you.
I pray to that you do the right thing, by your unborn child. I would swear at you like others have done but I don't think that would help the situation. Take some time out and figure what you are going to do for your babies future.
Good luck
2006-09-28 16:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, take it out on the kid and you show him. Really stupid question. You should probably have an abortion because of your immaturity as seen in this question you just asked. Either have the abortion because you feel you aren't ready to be a parent, give it up for adoption, or keep it and name it after an old boyfriend.
2006-09-28 15:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Chick with pets 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. An abortion can cause emotional problems in life. You will regret it I'm sure. Not a day will go by that you won't think about that poor fetus just because you felt spiteful. The guilt will add up and you will need therapy. I think you should go to a therapist or counseling for YOU, not for anyone else but yourself. I wish you the best of luck. Oh, by the way, the decision is yours, but I think you should search deep inside your heart before making it. Anyway, getting back at your boyfriend would be to actually have the baby because then he will have to support him/her for 18 years of their life. I wish you the best of luck and I'll say a prayer.
2006-09-28 15:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by LiSa B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are one ****** up bittch I don't know why you would ask this. If you want to spread your leg then deal with it. Abortion is just like murder that poor baby has a heart beat. Do you know how many people that can NOT have babies and here you are talking about killing a poor baby that never asked you to do this. I am thinking that you need so real help. LIKE I ALREADY SAID ABORTION IS JUST LIKE MURDER AS THE BABY HAS A HEART BEAT! I think you need to watch this http://www.silentscream.org/video1.htm. If I was your B/F I would kill you for even thinking about doing something like this
2006-09-28 16:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple...NO! You do not need to supress you innocent child just for revenge. If you feel as the mother that this is the right step for you than you need to do it, but if you both are willing to take care and support this child than do so. You both laid down and made this child so it is both of your responiblity to handle this situation like mature adults. That unborn child did not ask to be here so take care of it the best way you think you should, but don't give it up just for revenge. I my self have a seven month old son that I was all for giving him away because I knew I was going to be a single mom and I knew how hard it was going to be. Try your best to work things out and it will all fall into place and if you want I will gladly let you see a picture of my son, just let me know. my e-mail is honeybaby_booboo@yahoo.com if you ever need to talk!
2006-09-28 15:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by honeybaby_booboo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don believe in abortions but i will tell you this if you love your baby and want to provide for your child then you won do it. because you are upset with your boyfriend i would not get a abortion because you will up regret that you did.
2006-09-28 15:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no. The baby has nothing to do with you getting back at him. Are you making this question up just to get attention? Abortion is wrong no matter what the reason. It is also not healthy for you.
2006-09-29 01:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH SHUT UP!! You're pregnant and want to have an abortion to get back at your boyfriend and you also have a girlfriend? I read your other questions
2006-09-28 15:43:33 · answer #10 · answered by I smile because of them ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your problem? To murder an innocent child because you are mad at someone is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard in my life. Why did you have sex if you did not want to keep the child? There are no excuses, I have seen it all before. Things like, "I love him and we are gonna be together forever"! I guess that is why most people are MARRIED before they have children. Of all the sick things to even think to do to get back at someone, this is by far the worst! You should smash in his car windows or burn his clothes, not kill his child! I would look into getting some psychiatric help, because you are INSANE!!
2006-09-28 15:51:41 · answer #11 · answered by fatiima 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋