2006-09-28 15:32:51 · 15 answers · asked by cat lady 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think both. Depends on the reason for the separation. Congratulations could serve you well in both instances.
Either way, celebrate! You deserve it! You know what? Congratulations for being such a great person. How's that?
2006-09-29 03:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by sexychik1977 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends are you happy your separated? I will be married 9 yesars in October but we have been separated since June. Last year we were still living together but didn't celebrate then either. I think this year it will just be another day for me..He also said he would never file for divorce within less than two months of me moving out he did. I am happy to not be with him anymore..So congratulations if your still working on saving the marriage and condolences if your wishing you could but it's impossible..
2006-09-28 22:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by JustWant2B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES Gurl congratulations. the way I see it is just cuz your seperated doesn't mean that you haven't done what most can't accomplish and that's 10 years being married. So CONGRATS and if your seperated and workin on it then you REALLY deserve a huge congrats cuz to be together that long and to still wanna work on things is only tougher. I've been married to my Hubby for over 12 years and I know like I'm sure you do, Marriage is hard work. So you hold your head up high cuz Divorce is usually done within the first 5 yrs and you doubled that :)
2006-09-28 22:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were happy then you separated then Condolences are in order. If you were unhappy and you're glad that you a separated then Congratulations are in order.
2006-09-28 22:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by Marenight 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations you made it 10 years
2006-09-28 22:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I received my divorce papers and changed back to my maiden name, on what would have been our anniversary. At the time, it felt great...and very weird. My ex and I are now good friends, and I see his family quite a bit too. I love that. If y'all can agree on what is happening, and that it's happening for the best, it will all be okay in the end. It's much easier to hate a lot, than care a little, but it's so much nicer to care a little than hate a lot. HUGS.
2006-09-28 23:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by persnickety1022 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you've been separated and why. Since I don't know that, I'll just wish you well.
2006-09-28 22:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
separated = condolences
2006-09-28 22:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Melis__A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well.. If you are glad to be rid of the ****** then Congrats.!! If you really wanted to work things out and keep trying, then I'm sorry.
2006-09-28 22:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by ponytail75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither, if you're separated it's not really an anniversary, in my opinion.
2006-09-28 22:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋