dry humping facts? confused!?

Question

i got confused with everything about dry humping. some people said its safe, some said not, then when i asked some experts, it was pretty much the same, between yes its safe and others said no. another one said, nothings safe unless youre using a birth control. which one is correct?

i dont wanna have sex now [well, when i get married, i will] coz i'm not ready yet and my bf respects my decision.

the thing is when we do dry humping with fully clothed on [i always wear my panty liner pad.well, its just my habit to stay clean down there] for a while, after that my bf often stops when his pants a lil wet [not too much-just tiny, its like you accidentally splash the water to your pants after you wash your hand or oil when youre cooking i think its pre-***]. but oh well... my pants is still dry tho. i wonder, if its still safe for me to do it again.

i know about if sperms have any contact with women genitals, its not safe and causing pregnancy even fingering.

Answer 1

I am amazed at the really intimate and personal stuff people will put out there for the entire world to read! Come on, go read a book, or ask a doctor these questions....and stop airing your priviate life for every pervert to read and get his jollies from. You do know that there are some real loonies reading this stuff and getting off on it, don't you?

Get smart.

Answer 2

For the best answers, search on this site https://shorturl.im/axGcQ

Actually to all these people who answered, your all pretty much wrong... Even if your boyfriend did not ejaculate there is still fluid released by him called "pre-ejaculation fluid" which is released a few seconds before ejaculation, it does contain some sperm and if the sperm from this gets in contact with any of your body fluid, they could swim & result in pregnancy. The fact that you were wearing panties some what decreases that risk, but his fluid could have gotten on you and may have been capable of traveling. i know its a scary situation for you to be in right now, you seem to be young. I would suggest that you get a pregnancy test. if you to scared to get one, ask an elder who you trust! or just a close friend who will go with you. if you do get your period there's no way you are pregnant. although a few days after fertilization, the egg will implant itself and cause you to have whats called "implantation bleeding" it will be NOTHING like your period it will last only a few minutes and will not require a pad. Do not confuse this with your period. stay strong & keep your head high. & remember, only STRONG women can make sacrifices this big.

Answer 3

I'm confused on your question. LOL There is absolutely nothing wrong with dry humping. Your clothes are on, there's no skin to skin contact, no way for his *** to enter you, thus NO chance of pregnancy. And he can't get you pregnant by fingering you... only his penis can do that, unless his fingers ejaculate. LMAO :P I suppose if he had *** on his hands there is a slight possibility. But yes, dry humping is perfectly safe and you won't get pregnant with your clothes on.

Answer 4

Just for clarification purposes, everyone is fully clothed and he ejaculates in his pants, right? I would say that is pretty safe, but there is always a chance when sperm is involved. Birth control is always a good bet, why don't you get some? Usually the pills are pretty cheap, maybe $30 without insurance.

Answer 5

I think its a bad idea to dry hump unless ur on the pill who Knows what can happen its better to be safe then sorry right

Answer 6

ok if the *** doent get into your you know what, dry humping is fine you wont get hurt over it and you cant get pregnant if anything your clothing will protect that, you only need to be on birth control if you decide to actually have intercouse, i am proud of you for having the decision to wait till your married, good luck

Answer 7

Luckly this is a great solution for premature ejaculation http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?bQUA

A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.

He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied

Answer 8

1

Answer 9

Perfectly safe. It's even hard to get pregnant sometimes when you actually have real sex. You're still a virgin. you have a natural skin protection over your cervix, pardon me for my graphic description. So, no sperm could possibly get through.

Answer 10

Oh my! How old are you? Of course dry humping fully clothed is safe, just dont rub and "stuff" down there.

Answer 11

You are correct. Even if the sperm are on the genitals then you can become pregnant and with fingering following.