I am married with one kid. However, I can't seem to forget my first love. In fact, I do not have the intention to break up with him, but b'coz my parents were against our relationship, I initiate the break up to make them happy. Now I'm remorse. I can't help thinking about him. Recently, my friend met him and saw him with a girl. I got so jealous and cried. What's happening to me? Shouldn't I be happy now that I'm married? My husband does not give that much love to me as he does. What should I do? Pls help.
2006-09-28 14:24:12 · 5 answers · asked by noina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's hard to forget the past... especially someone you really love and have great moment together before... not even say 1st love... Like me, I still do think of my 1st ex who past away... for you, you still be able to see him... but for me, i can only think of her... anyway, what's past is already past... you should cherish your current situation right now. try think of the bright side that he had found another girl in which he likes and wish him the best in your heart... try it out... it may let you feel better... but sometimes feeling are uncontrolable... cry it out maybe will be better for you too... just be strong on it...
2006-09-28 16:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sucks! I am so sorry you are going through this. I know we should honor our parents but they aren't living our lives. Maybe later in life you will look back and be so happy with your husband that you will be glad you made the breakup decision. Is it possible that you just need to go through this healing process. Don't punish your new husband, make the best of it and maybe the way things are is the way things were meant to be. Hope you feel better and it all works out. I still love my first love but we both have moved on. You'll get there and you'll be ok.
2006-09-28 14:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents where probably right. What did your friends think of him?
We don't get to choose who we fall in love with. But there comes a time when your head has to protect you from your heart.
Isn't you child the most important thing in your life at this point?
2006-09-28 14:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get married if you didn't love your husband for life?
Sounds to me like you just wanted to be married, now you regret that.
2006-09-28 14:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not made for you.There must be a reason why you are not fated to be with him.Lets move your life now to the fullest.
2006-09-28 14:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋