how old were you when you losed your virginity cause know like this girl that losed it when she was 9 also is 12 too young cause lots of people i know losed theirs at that age
2006-09-28 14:13:58 · 30 answers · asked by xoxoxox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry for my spelling
and i'm saving myself for the right one
2006-09-28 14:18:42 · update #1
the girl at 9 thinks she is so grown and if you think i do do then your wrong!
2006-09-28 14:21:52 · update #2
If you can't spell lose or lost correctly, you are definitely too young to lose it.
2006-09-28 14:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by alis_n_1derland 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it I guarantee that the 'sex' your friends are apparently having is nothing more than a clumsy, awkward version of the real thing. And they'll regret it when they're old enough to understand what idiots they have been!
Wait until you know exactly what you're doing or it'll never be any fun. I lost mine at 16 which honestly is still young but I knew what I was doing at least and I was ready and it was good (as good as it can be the first time) So listen to everybody else and really, stop worrying about it.
I'm not going to make any nasty age jokes but you really shouldn't feel pressured at your age, if you rush things and shag the first guy or girl who's willing you WILL look back at it and feel like a slag.
2006-09-28 14:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
11
2006-09-28 14:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by gunnerbstrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, 12 is REALLY young. I know people who have lost it that young too, and they ALL regret it.
Anyway, it is completely illegal in all 50 US states, Canada, and the UK. Remember, in Canada the age of onsent is only 14, so I would say 12 is way too young. Think about it, would you be able to handle the consequences of sex? If something went wrong and there was a pregnancy, would you be able to handle it? That's how you answer your question.
2006-09-28 14:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity when I was 19. 9 is too young. And so is 12. Sex feels great but the truth is that it doesn't matter beyond that if you don't care about that person. You'll end up feeling more empty. Don't push it and allow it to happen naturally and maturely. Is it worth the wait? Yes, because you'll be more true and feel more confident about who you are rather than needing to feel sexly high.
2006-09-28 14:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17
2006-09-28 14:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that having sex under 18 should be a law just like smoking. Too many kids are forcing themselves to grow up by making the adult decision to have sex. Kids are unaware of how to protect themselves and are immature.
Babies raising babies is all I think about when I see a pregnant teen. Having sex is much so a grown up thing to do so you should keep your legs closed, your pants zip up until you are 18 and are old enough to take care of your own actions. 9 and 12 year olds should not be think of and or having sex.
2006-09-28 14:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by Tarabeara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saving yourself for later in life is the best choice. That is the only way to be STD free and not have to deal with any unwanted pregnancies. I personally lost mine at 16, which is too young.
2006-09-28 19:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness! Do these girls know the risks involved with that?? Not only are they just ASKING for warts in their you-know-whats, but what if they get pregnant? I really, really don't think a 9-year-old or a 12-year-old is ready to be a mom, do you?
2006-09-28 14:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way toooo young ... you should be at least 16 or 17 ... but ideally you should be about 18 or 19 because sex comes with a lot of emotions and responsibility!! you need to respect yourself and wait till the time is right!!
2006-09-28 14:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋