I am obsessed with this boy--Brandon. He is seventeen and I am thirteen.....I have no idea what to do! I know he is WAY to old for me and WAY out of my league...but there is no other boy like him! It is like there is nobody like him around. He knows I like him...because the little boy next door found out and told him. Sometimes, I think about how bad I want him that I'll cry. I have no idea what to do. It's like I'll never find another person like him...what do I do? How do I get over him? How can I just stop liking him? I have tried to not like him...but it's too hard. It's something about him...please...what should I do?
2006-09-28 14:13:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Never let Brandon Go....however stay friends forever, or as long as you can. If you are to be with him you WILL be, but apparently that time isn't now. If true love and life brings you two together BONUS. If life diverts you both to seperate ways then you will truely be friends forever. I trust you are saying you guys are friends.....let it ride and take the trip, but do not push it and see what happens.
Please also don't get hurt. Keep looking in other directions. There are many fish in the bodies of water throughout the world. There will be another Brandon (if this one doesn't work) and maybe just maybe you were holding out for someone that wouldn't make you happy once you achieved your dsire. Let Life feed your desire, and keep living.
2006-09-28 14:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by unclemikee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im my case I was not allowed to date until I was 16. Any "crushes" I had boys before that I just kept to myself or maybe told my best friend and we would have a good laugh. (girl bonding monents....... sharing personal stuff with your best friends and she can do the same with you.)
I also had a crush on a guy when I was 13. One of my friends spilled the beans and told him. (He was 15 at the time. We had known each other since we were infants. Our parents were friends) He thought it was nice I liked him, but we did not date.
Three years later he wrote a love song and sang it to me in front of several of our friends. I was sooo embarassed, but at the same time I loved every second of that special moment.
Again, we never dated, but we were great friends until we both got married and went our seperate ways.
He went on the become a famous singer and musician.
I WILL ALWAYS TREASURE MY FIRST CRUSH!
2006-09-29 11:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by together420yrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and u will grow up. Time will tell what happen. Just be patient or if u brave enough tell the truth.
My mom says that love in this age is just amonkeylove.Whatever u feel right now, it still not the true love. Except u are growin' up and still love him.
2006-09-29 08:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by luke s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, am an indian, and you know, that the morals and the values of the indians are globally accepted.
our moral in this regard is that love someone who loves you initially. this is specially for teens because teen girls tend to kill herself, hurt herself and make themselves sick if they are not heeded by the boy she likes.
be cool. life doesnot stop at a boy. u may find lacs better than him. so, love him who loves you first.
they become more successful who believe that "sweetest is the fruit when one waits for the best"
all the luck to you darling!
2006-09-29 07:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi it never hurts to just be friends i know ot is hard to just stop likeing some one after all that is why we call it crush. you are 13 i am sure you will find some one your age it could be he is already there but you just have been paying so much attention to this other guy that you havent noticed good luck sweet 13
2006-09-28 21:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by mcdanieljoanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go trust me a 17 year old dude for a 13 year old girl? in a couple years that'll be illgal or whatever get stick with friends and find guys your age
2006-09-29 01:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you dont want to hear this but you are too young for boys. live your life. dont rush into anything. i had my first serious boyfriend at 15....and he was 19. i felt the same way you did and now 4 years later we are still together. and i am miserable. its like im married and i wish i had my freedom back. as far as getting over him.....just do it. dont think about him. its just a crush. you will have tons of them in your life time. just please please please live your life and dont worry so much about boys
2006-09-29 01:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you she wait until you grow older, i am sure by that time ur crush will be over... If you cant wait just find something about him that you dislike
example he eats with mouth open >>>>>>>>>>>>>
2006-09-28 21:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by insherry girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do any thing stupid,try not to think about him,do the things a 13year do and play with kids your own age it will pass over.
2006-09-28 21:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by Hookman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young, dont worry you'll get over it...try to find out something really bad or disgusting about him, it'll help you dislike him...
2006-09-28 22:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋