im very tired and need help despratley. my stepfather is not treating us right and im having to take care of two little girls while my mother runs away. now my grades are slipping becuase im tired. put anything down i really do not care.
2006-09-28 13:57:37 · 21 answers · asked by badnerves 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
first thing first.. YOU ARE NOOOTTT A LOSER! okay? don't ever think that you are a loser.. all of us has it's own problem.. so having that problems will never make you a loser...i can suggest things to solve your but it's up to you if you want them..
1. do you have any relatives? grandparents maybe? because I know grandparents love their grandchildren so much. You can go to them and ask (nicely)help from them.. if not maybe an aunt whom you know that can help you. just be sure that whoever you will go to for help, make sure that they can afford to help you.. for me grandparents really help.
2. if you can't find any grandparents.. maybe you can ask help from the government. are you 18 or not yet 18? even if you are on the right age I know the government will help you and your siblings. and also if your step father is really treating you bad you can report him to the police.
...as of now that is all i can suggest you. but the most of all that you can do is to come to the Lord. In all my suggestions it should always be included with a prayer. God still cares for you.and HE always do. People here in the world will always disappoint us and discourages us but God is still there always willing to hear our prayers. Just give Him a try.
God bless you.
2006-09-28 14:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by [][][][][][][][][] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who would attack you at such a low point in your life? It would most certainly be unfair and unkind to you. Help out with your little sisters because apparently you are all they have. This problem will work itself out. Try your best sweetie to do good in school. You'll be blessed in the long run. If you really need someone to talk to that can help, speak to your teacher, someone that you trust or the school social worker. They are there to help. No matter what, never let anyone treat you any kind of way because you are not feeling your best. You are worthy of nothing but the best. Don't forget, talk to someone. The sooner the better for you and the other kids. God loves you and so do I.
2006-09-28 14:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by hellokittyt012263 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mother ran away? Wow I have to say that you are a very important person to those little girls and its hard taking care of them at a young age. And if your stepfather isn't treating you right then maybe you need to live with an aunt or grandmother. You shouldn't be having to take care of kids and worry about your grades too.Talk to your step dad and ask him if you and those little girls could live with another relative.If not then you might need to call your relatives yourself and tell them whats going on.
2006-09-28 14:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley F.M. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is your stepfather doing? If he is being abusive in any way, you should tell an adult at school or someone that you trust. If its only a rough patch, you CAN NOT give up. Things will get better and you must stay strong. And you are NOT a loser. You seem like a responsible and caring young lady who God will bless one day.
2006-09-28 14:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by black mamba 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your plight, I may not know the right answer but I'll tell you this you have to look deep down inside of yourself and have faith and pray, I don't want to sound like a religious freak but God does not put us in a situation we cannot handle. I take it that those 2 girls are your sisters look after them and if all else fails kick your stepdad in the n*ts (just kidding). Take care a remember taking care of those 2 girls may mean more to them and have a greater effect on them than you think, you may not see it now but wait.
2006-09-28 14:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sakura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay strong don't give up you can get though it I promise things will get beater for you. Yes you are tired but try to fine a way to slip some extra sleep in.Maybe you should talk to some one about it.Also try to stay awake in school so you don't fail and not half to stay back OK.I hope things get beater for you.
2006-09-28 14:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tiredness cam make you depressed.You need to get a good sleep to have a good education for your future.You don't say exactly what your stepfather is doing,if he is abusing you in any way talk to a teacher at school.
2006-09-28 14:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm very sorry to hear that but one day things will get better for you but you have to beleave in yourself and those two girls need you . you need to find [adult or respsible person] someone near you to turn to , your not a loser your doing great to just hang in there , your doing a very good thing taking care of thoes two girls, think better thoughts and better things will happen
2006-09-28 14:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby do you have any family you can talk to? if so call your aunts, grandparents or a family friend. someone can help because you are a child who don't have children. please don't take after your mother. baby prayer always help. i would hate for you to put the folks in her life because you all will probably be separated. you don't want to be away from your sisters. call someone in the family if they don't help maybe a church member. i am praying for you okay. maybe one of your neighbors can help. watch and look for a clean woman who can help you. god always sends angels around to help.
2006-09-28 14:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by sweet sexy san 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1-800-FOR A CHILD tell them the kids in your family are being neglected. It's completely anonymous and they have to respond within 48 hours.
2006-09-28 14:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋