My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. He has baby momma drama with his ex that he refuses to handle, and it is causing serious problems between us. She calls to harrass me and makes up lies about him and her. I keep begging him to do something, but he doesn't seem to care. He says the baby isn't even his, and he's gonna let her do this! I love him, and I don't want this to be the end of our relationship, but I can't put up with it. Does anyone have any advice?
2006-09-28 13:54:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You know what? Tell you "BF" to be a man, if the baby isn't his, to get a paternity test, end of story. As for the Momma, put her in her place, if she calls you, tell her to stop or you will call the cops, let them deal with the trash!!! If she tells stories, laugh in her face, if he allows this, then obviously he's enjoying it and doesn't care, if that's the case, dump the scum bag!!! You can find better.
2006-09-28 14:00:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then don't put up with it. This will always follow him and if hes not going to deal with it then there is not much you can do. Think of it in the reverse, if you were his baby's momma and he was refusing to call you back and denied the child as his how would that make you feel? Sounds like HE and the way he handles this situation, not she is the real problem here!
Do your self a major favor and MOVE ON to someone with LESS drama and attachments. I have seen this over and over, bugging him and asking him to talk it out and deal WITH IT is not going to work!
2006-09-28 21:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by tara t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows he isn't the baby's father then he should request to do a DNA test to show proof he isn't. And as for his ex she needs to leave you out of it. Have your phone number change and try to avoid any contact with her. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him if there isn't any changes in the situation then your finished with him. You don't need to deal with that drama crap. If you truly love him your heart will lead you to the right direction. Don't let the weird chick get the best of you. Be strong!
Tell your boyfriend if he's man enough he will stand up to her in order to save your relationship! Good luck!!
2006-09-28 21:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! You don't need to waste another minute with that guy if he's bringing that much bad baggage to your relationship. If the shoe was on the other foot, he'd would had dumped you in a NY minute!
2006-09-28 20:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
COUNSELING FOR YOU GUYS! HE NEEDS TO GET A DNA TEST IF HE THINKS THIS BABY ISN'T HIS. THAN IF IT ISN'T HIS HE CAN TELL THE BABY'S MOMMA TO STOP BOTHERING US BUT IF THE BABY IS HIS HE STILL NEEDS TO TELL HER TO LEAVE YOU GUYS ALONE!IF HE WANTS TO HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU THAN HE NEEDS TO DO SOMETHING!IF HE DOESN'T DO ANYTHING THAN GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP!GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-28 20:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he refuses to face the issue, he's probably not going to and If you can't deal with this issue then move on.
2006-09-28 20:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by sunflower091705 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DNA test?
2006-09-28 20:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kill her. Or have her killed.
2006-09-28 21:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by Dick Richie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋