Two years ago I worked with this chic, I was always attracted to her, but she said she was straight. She knew I was bi and I used to tease her alot in a flirty manner. On her birthday we went out and had a few drinks. We wound up in bed together, just that once. I moved away (an hour drive) soon after but kept in touch. I have thought about her alot in the past 2 yrs. Six months ago she calls me to tell me she has a gf now... shocker. Today she called and said she and her gf "wanna play" and asked me to join them in a threesome. I really am tempted but also not very sure. Any acvice?
2006-09-28 13:49:24 · 16 answers · asked by 2crooked 2b straight 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
suzy... what the h*ll do men have to do with this question?
2006-09-28 13:54:50 · update #1
Whoa ease up tiger, You need to think about some major things first. You said you have thought about her allot in the past 2yrs is this in a friend way, or kind of the fish that got away kind of thinking??? She is obviously keen for it to call you out of the blue. But the thing is can you be with her again but have no feelings for her afterwards??? If you think you can then i say go for it! But if you cant, do you really want to put your self through the mental anguish after it all (seeing her with her g/f when you have feelings for her) so it really comes down to you and your motives for wanting to do it. Best of luck with what ever you choose
2006-09-28 14:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by *Aus*Surfer*Girl* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though sometimes it sounds like fun, usually someone ends up getting hurt. I wouldn't recommend going along with it. If you have been thinking about her a lot latley, this would probably not work out as a threesome. I would tell her that if it didn't work out to give you a call and still remain as friends.
2006-09-28 21:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why aren't you sure?
She has obviously thought about you a lot in the last couple of years. If you want some no-strings-attached fling with her, then why not?
But you are obviously having doubts - do you care for her a fair bit? If that's the case then I personally wouldn't - she just wants you for a bit of fun, not a relationship.
2006-09-28 20:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You know you liked this girl once, and now she wants to share. I think you should decline. She could have contacted you at any time if she was interested in you. It seems like she just wants to use you and do you really need that?
2006-09-28 23:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends...how much chance do you have of getting hurt if you do this?...I wouldn't put myself in a risky emotional situation unless you feel you can handle it...obviously you're going to come out this three some alone...that's fine..but just make certain that you can deal with that and you're not imagining getting back with her or anything.
2006-09-28 21:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've done it. I wouldn't do it now. But at the time I was tempted. I admit I enjoyed it. So I would say go with your feelings.
2006-09-28 20:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
bi_grl,
I would guess that there was something you did that made her want to be bi or gay. Good job.
What's the deal? What's wrong with you? You go teach them how to do it right or there'll be a spankin' for you for not going!
Now git!
2006-09-28 21:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
totaly go for it!! sex is just a way to plesure ourselves and if you realy look at it, its kinda silly to put all those feelings into somthing that you know wont last! i say go for it and enjoy it and give them the best time of there lives!!!
2006-09-28 21:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by brandy t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you not? What is there to loose? I just can't see a down side to this one.
2006-09-28 21:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by Markinator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAYUMMMM girll you gott gameee. fo sho i like men tho so dont be tryin nothin on me. but ya babyy gurlll tap it.
2006-09-28 21:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋