Okay, I have been going out w/ my new bf for only a day. He has already mentioned us doing very sexual things, and it has really freaked me out. He tried to kiss me, and for some reason it grossed me out. Oh, and I'm only 12. What should i do??
2006-09-28 13:02:09 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
HEY I THINK YOU SHOULD LEAVE HIM. YOU ARE BOTH WAY TOO SMALL, AND HE'S JUST A HORNY LITTLE BOY. NOT WORTH IT BELIEVE ME. IF IT GROSSES YOU OUT, WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM. BOYS WILL BE BOYS GET AWAY FROM HIM HE'S IMATURE, AND WAIT PLEASE WATEVER YOU DO WAIT TILL YOU ARE READY, AND PLEASE DON'T DO IT ONE DAY INTO THE RELATIONNSHIP..
2006-09-29 10:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. Mentioning doing very sexual things is a HUGE hint that he is only dating you for the wrong reasons. Plus it's bad if he wants to kiss you even after you tell him no. You are still 12. Live your life to the fullest because you don't need a bf to keep you busy from doing other stuff.
2006-09-28 14:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, kissing is not that harmful. but not in excess obviously. and for that matter, sexual things is not to be done at this age. let the age decide that what u should do. its too early. have fun with other things, like talking and helping out each other, sending flowers, going for shopping, parties together.
these are much much better than sex. so enjoy innocence and let the matured things come later n ur way.
good luck
2006-09-28 18:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOA! 12? well i was twelve when i had a bf too but how old is he? if he wants to do something you don't, tell him and if he's not okay with that, then DUMP HIM! you've got plenty of time to date guys you dont need to get stuck wiht some asshole thats gonna rape you. and be careful too, heart break sucks, but once you find a guy you really care for, its amazing. just keep your pants on and dont let a guy manipulate you or you'll be the next slut at your school. avoid that at all costs.
2006-09-28 13:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to be freaked out. It is illegal for either of you to do sexual things and it is also dangerous for you. Make sure you are never alone with him and just be "friends" with him and tell him that you will not do any of the things he is asking you to do. Try to chat to your mum about it. My daughter is also 12 and she had the same problem. Luckily we found out how this boy was trying to get her to do things with him and we stopped them seing each other except at school. Never be alone with him. Dont have him as a boyfriend-you realy are too young for boyfriends-just have lots of friends-girls and boys.
2006-09-28 13:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by angeldust 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun hes not right for u if hes already trying sexual things with u but kissing isnt that bad and it doesnt do anything really to u i remember that age 12 i got freaked out to my bf broke up with me bc of it
2006-09-28 13:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by Pooh Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR 12 AND DATING!!??
wait till ur at least in high school.
if it freaked you out that he tried to kiss you maybe ur not ready to be in a relationship. if your not comfortable with it don't do it. also this guy kinda sounds like he wants to take advantage of you. i would try to split from this guy cuz if you've been dating only a day and already mentioning that stuff then he doesn't sound like a good guy.
2006-09-28 18:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about time to learn how to keep a guy under control.
Learn to say no.
Learn to remove hands.
You decide when to kiss, not him. Not initially at least.
Did you NEVER play Mother, May I when you were a kid!
He's trying to see what he can get away with and it's up to you to show him that YOU set the rules.
Maybe start out by telling him no sex stuff til 16.
2006-09-28 17:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
READ THIS...I KNOW WHAT TO DO...
your only 12 ok so when your ready to do anything sexually you should be older than that, if you tell him to stop saying that when he is talking about something sexual and he keeps going thats harrasment and tell him if you dont wait untill im not ready than we have to break up. then go tell someone..like a teacher...if he continues. you control if you want to have sex with him. just dont do anything dumb like get drunk and then you end up pregnant at the age of 13...listen ..and when he kisses turn your face if you do want to kiss him he'll notice and ask "whats wrong? i thought..." and he'll say something . it depends
2006-09-28 15:17:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first @ 12 , I wouldn't want somebodies tongue in my mouth. Does he brush his teeth? And sex, not until I was ready and I didn't feel I was ready until past 17.
Tell him your NOT into the stuff he wants and he is freaking you out with it. How old is he anyway 20 something? If he won't stop then tell him your not interested in him anymore and why whould you be, espescally if he is pushing you towards something you don't want. Makes it sound like you don't mean anything more then what he wants to get.
2006-09-28 13:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by Me M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first off, since you mentioned that you are only 12, dump the guy 12 is way too young to be having sex, you are just starting puberty. and if you have been only going out with him for a day, then he is probobly immiture, and is only using you. trust me.
2006-09-28 13:46:48 · answer #11 · answered by hotty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋