Do feminine gay guys, who play the girl's role, dress up girlie for your boyfriend? Do you wear panties, bras, dresses, makeup? Do you act feminine and girlie for him?
2006-09-28 12:56:35 · 19 answers · asked by girlieboi1 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes i do,we are called crossdressers.Sometimes i only wear panties and a bra,or i dress totally feminine.But i dont do it for my boyfriend,,i do it for me ,he just happens to like me dressed this way too.right now i have on a skirt,stockings ,heels ,panties,bra ,blouse,and makeup
2006-09-28 19:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. It depends on the 'feminine guy' and the relationship he's in. More often than not, it's just a guy who has 'girl characteristics' and that's the end of it. No bras or panties or any of that.. just the mannerisms. In other cases, sure... they wear girls' clothes. Is their a problem with it? No. Am I attracted to it? No. My bf is the more feminine one in the relationship and he wears some 'girl clothes' but nothing extreme... maybe a shirt or glasses or pants... but not a skirt or dress. It's all in the person's personal preference.
2006-09-28 20:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by spentshell2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Allow me to blow your mind. Some gay men play up the stereotype (sometimes deliberately). SOme gay men just find that their expressing themselves as such, and I say more power to them. These same men don't always "play the girl's role"; sexually, physically, emotionally, or anything else. See, straight people have these predetermined gendertypes to fall back on; we don't do that as often. So, someone could be all kinds of femme, but his boyfriend is the one who cooks and cleans. And maybe they take turns in the bedroom.
To further tear apart your misconception: some gay men are drag queens. Some straight men are drag queens too. And drag queens are completely seperate from transfolk and usually seen as distinct from "transvestites" (though that word is pretty vague). Now then, a drag queen may or may not come off as femme when out and about not in drag. And, they may or may not do any of the other things mentioned above that society arbitrarily attatches to gender.
2006-09-29 00:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your making the assumption that if two people are together it means that one has to play a female role and another has to play a male role. In a gay relationship these lines would not be met; wouldn't you say. Now in any relationship their is a dominanat and passive role; which can be crossed repeatedly, and that may be what your making the assumption on, but even then a woman can be the dominant half of a heterosexual relationship just as easily as a man can.
2006-09-28 22:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by had438 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a gay transvestite and very transgendered; so I always play the girl's role. I love dressing girlie for a guy, shaved legs, underarms, chest. Full underwear and clothing and makeup. Perfume is a must of course ;0) Totally love it!
2006-09-28 20:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cross dressing is different from feminine. Some guys can have feminine features as well as some girls might have masculine features. Being a cross dresser is a whole different story...
2006-09-28 20:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by petit chat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh let me tell you they do. I went to Burdorf's last week, and this little ***** of a boi snagged a pair of lace undies for me and ran off to the changing room cackling all the way. Well I went in there snagged the rest of his clothes and he just came prancing out wearing the undies. I mean how rude, he so needed to tan. But yeah they get som esort of kick out of wearing these frilly thing, as do thier BFS..It's all kind of wierd if you ask me.
2006-09-28 20:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by Karen Walker 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is a difference between being feminine and being a crossdresser.
2006-09-28 19:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They do not. Or I should the vast majority do not. That is just a fetish--transexualism. It is as common with hetro guys as it is with gay guys.
2006-09-28 20:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know nothing! I've been with a few fem guys and they were total tops! Do you know what a top is? If you do, then you are gay too!
2006-09-28 21:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋