My parents aren't very fond of online dating or even chatting with other people from out of state or out of the country. But I am in a very serious online relationship, I"m 19 and I'd like to let them know who I'm in love with and who will be their future son in law.
2006-09-28 12:55:28 · 15 answers · asked by music_mustang66 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My parents aren't very fond of online dating or even chatting with other people from out of state or out of the country. But I am in a very serious online relationship, I"m 19 and I'd like to let them know who I'm in love with and who will be their future son in law. and by the way I have known my boyfriend for about 4 years..I have been dating him for a year now, and I have heard his voice and seen his webcam, so you know there is no secrecy between us and we also like on different coasts of the U.S.
2006-09-28 16:14:31 · update #1
sorry..we also LIVE on different coasts..he lives in the east I live in the west of the U.S.
2006-09-28 16:19:14 · update #2
I think that.. you should find it in your heart onto what you really want to do.. :P.. do you think hes the right oneeee?...The one you wanna wake up every single day next to?... dont listen to anyone else but yourself. Dont rush things.. he aint going anywhere.. I'm sure he aint in a hurry for you to tell your parents.. He might be afraid to get his as whooped by your dad... who knows!.. But I'm sure that when the time is right... maybe in a yr or 2.. or less! but I doubt it.. because well I got a feeling :p but anywaysss you guys will be together and see where that goes from there.. and hopefully HOPefullyyy your parents will understand on how much you care for him and love him.. and if hes a good person or not.. but I heard from the rumors that he is.. dont ask me where I got these rumors from.. :) but anyways good luck with that.. may god bless ya..
2006-09-28 14:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by I love Yaya... who am I?? O_o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had online relationships too and am currently married to someone I met off online. So having had some experience I'd first ask if you've met the person too. Remember not everybody that "seems" dreamy is. I've had my share of disappointments and psychos at that. So once you meet and still feel so seriously, then before you tell them that you are having a serious online relationship let them meet eachother. Give them a chance to like him first then you should tell them. My parents are old school and are the same way but they fell in love with him. SO it worked for me... good luck!
2006-09-28 13:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mel and Ed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself am older than 30's and have been in several of what I thought were VERY serious online relationships. A couple it took a while before I noticed things were all wrong, and a couple just died off as I noticed I was online with really still married men.
Fine that you THINK you are in love, but your parents may have a point to their ideas of guys you OR they cannot personally meet - things can change rapidly in-person. Do some big-time thinking on this whole thing.
2006-09-28 13:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by Charlee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this....but any relationship online cannot possibly be serious...
1) face to face-only way to get real physical thoughts and interaction..
2) Cybering- Anyone can do it...you just have to have an imagination( tell your parents that one and they will probably laugh at you histerically)
3) How do you know the other person is "faithful"
4) why are you so stupid to think that you fell in love on-line?(because general consensus is that your a moron.)
2006-09-28 13:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang on, an online relationship? Have you ever met the guy? i think you need to at least meet him and make sure he's the guy he says he is before you think of telling your parents about him. and your 19? i dont think you really need their permission do what you want to unless you're still living with them. Think of it this way, if your parents would get mad at you for doing it, why? maybe what you're doing isnt as "serious" as you think. ON THE OTHER HAND, if you have met him and it is just a long distance thing, then go for it. If you love the guy who cares what your parents think, ever heard of romeo and juliet?
2006-09-28 13:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG gurl I'm having the same exact situation. I met this guy who is now my boyfriend online and we've known each other for about 4 years but we've only been dating for two months. I haven't told my parents yet because I'm scared of what their reaction may be and i just don't know what to do. I only get to see him like once or twice a month and when i go visit him i lie to my parents and tell them i'm going to the mall with my best friend who is nice enough to take me to visit him and i just hate having to lie to them. I wanna tell them but i dunno how either but i think the only way out of this whole situation is just by telling them the whole truth and just dealing with the consequences and just hope that they will accept the relationship. good luck!
2006-09-28 13:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few questions for you.....do you know what you are getting yourself into? Have you ever met this person other than online? Dont you think that your parents feel like this for a reason? Maybe you should take it slowly and then after you get to know this man personally, and one of you moves to the other's stae, then it wont be online dating anymore, so they shouldnt have a problem, right?
hmmmmm.............
2006-09-28 13:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by da_trump_queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. that's a very hard thing to do. my parents freak about online pretadors. so let them know that it's really a real person and not some offender (or something like that). i suggest sitting them down and talking to them about this. if you can have your parents meet this special person. good luck!
2006-09-28 13:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by ellerey n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're your parents! you should tell them that your'e not a child anymore and you can make your own decisions! Tell them how much a good guy he his and they'll understand, but if they don't that's their problem. If you truly love this guy, you are ment to be and noone can get in your way.
2006-09-28 12:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by mysteriousmystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea..Good luck...either way. there gonna be like, "yea, you've known this guy for how long and spent how much time with him and you're already calling him our future son in law'...
2006-09-28 13:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋