I meet a man 3 weeks ago. Him and I been going out and when were together he treats me real good with respect and maners he treats me like how I what to be theated. We talk alot we laugh alot.But I feel I don't have to tell him everything about me right away. He whats to know everything no secerts. I took him to a meeting business meeting but I did'nt tell him I was a member and when he found out he was upset because I did'nt tell him. I told him theres alot of me u don't know and in do time u will find out. He don't what that. He whats everything out on the table now. I told him I'am not use of telling a person I just meet 3weeks ago everything about me. He can't understand that. He said before we go any longer in are relaytionship he has to know everything about me. Well I don't know how to handle this. HELP
2006-09-28 12:44:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A business meeting? WTF. You don't type like you even made it through grammar school.
2006-09-28 12:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by xoaligatoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this insecure person that time is the best teacher and not one man know everything about one person unless they share experiences with each other.. But if he persist on know all there is to know tell him that will cost him time, patience and a 12 carat diamond and promise to marry in 6 years.. Watch how quick it changes things... Because that's how long it will take for you to find the best way for him to know all he need to know about you and u him.. If he tell you he also want a 12 carat diamond. Go on EBay and buy him a CZ with one and go from there, but only if he gives you yours first.. But do be very careful with this person because he sounds like he may be a problem down the road.. As well as dangerous to get too close to..
2006-09-28 19:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Teetee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has a control issue. It's like he's trying to play a mind game by making you feel guilty by not giving him what he wants and then giving you an ultimatum. I suggest that you bounce that ball right back to your court and state what you want. Let him know that you're not comfortable with revealing everything so soon and if he cannot accept it then you walk away. I'm sure you'll meet other guys with good manners.
I wish you the best!
2006-09-28 19:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a manipulator my dear. Watch out for this guy...stay just the way you are. He could be dangerous down the road. He does not own you but now he want to control you..he can understand everything...don't be fooled by that line. You are doing fine...but be cool to cold towards him till he leaves. He' what is know and an emotional manipulator.... beware.
2006-09-28 19:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him only what he needs to know he will learn the rest as you go.Did he tell you all about him? He sounds like he has been hurt before and he needs to tell you all about it so you can understand him better.He also sounds like he is insecure and judgmental...he wants it all on the table so he knows if he's staying in the relationship or not. The choice is yours tell him or not ....personally I wouldn't tell him he can take you the way you are or leave you.
~Good Luck~
2006-09-30 18:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to take time to get to know each other. If he truly cares for you he will wait on you. Three weeks is not long enough to get to know anyone, let alone your most intimate thoughts. He sounds as if he is up to no good, I bet if you did a background check on him you will find something is not quite kosher about him.
2006-09-28 19:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is too much to tell about a person in one go. it takes time to get to know someone, there is no need for rushing and it has only been three weeks you only should tell him what you feel comfortable in telling him for the time being. dont let him bully you. tell him you want to learn about each other through time.
2006-09-28 19:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word here is trust. You need to make him understand that trust is earned and time is the only way he can earn your trust. If he can't deal with that - dump him - because he does not respect you or your feelings.
2006-09-28 19:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that he is being pushy. Never disclose too much information too soon. Does he tell you anything of value? Think about it. He may not be that nice person you think he is.
2006-09-28 19:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by luvngran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is way too nosy! I think you are better off without seeing someone like that who is too keenly interested in your business.
2006-09-28 19:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋