well.. im back where i started lol...well i am currently having sex since june 30th and continued on i got over my period on sept 6th and after had sex. i cant tell my parents becasue it would kill them but anywho, every now and then i wonder if im alright. i use tojan spermicide condoms and im sure everytime we do that i make sure that its all in the condom and we change them when we need to. he even pulls out when hes done to be extra safe. im not late yet my period should arrive sometime in november i dont know for sure cause im irregular sometimes i get it sometimes i dont which is scary but like i said my parents dont know and my mother thinkis im going to wait. i havent had any signs and if so what should i look for? and i currently have a urinay infection i get htem alll the time which sucks..what should i do ?
i am the safest person when it comes to sex
2006-09-28 12:31:15 · 24 answers · asked by Christine R 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Look, it looks like you get scared every time you do it, by the look of your other ?, trust me I'm a virgin but when the slightest thing does happen w/ my bf.... I get scared about being pregnant and it only means that you're not ready to be doing this.. just give it some time.. and when you feel truly ready you won't feel scared anymore.
2006-09-28 12:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to be seeing a doctror from time to time especially on your urinary conditon. Is it possible for you to do this w/o parents knowing? If not go to a walk in clinic.
Although I don't recommend treating yourself for urinary infection you can try some cranberry juice--drink several glasses a day. But you may also need antibiotics. It is also possible that it has something to do with your sexual activity--like a reaction to the spericide--it really should be checked by a doctor.
You can get a pregnancy check kit at the drug store.
Can't tell you to do this--and I personally know it is hard. But it would be good if you could just be honest with your parents. I would think they would rather know the truth and be able to help you rather than just fooling themeselves that it is not. If there is anyway you can talk them do try.
2006-09-28 12:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me let you in on a little secret. Spermicide does not work any better than the regular stuff. Spermicide is really just detergent. It can cause irritations including killing the germs in our bodies that we need to stay healthy. Condom manufactures often use it just to jack the price a little and make more sales.
Your method of birth control could possibly be a factor in your urinary tract infection.
I'm sorry I didn't cover the question you asked, but I felt that this was important.
2006-09-28 12:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely should just see a doctor- you really need to see one for the infection anyways, because they can lead to kidney problems, and you will be glad you did after they give you pills for it!!! While youre there, ask about whether you are pregnant, and about going on birth control. And spermicides are very likely the cause of the infection, i wouldnt recommend them.
But my main advice- Be careful about confidentiality. Doctors may not tell your parents but the insurance papers will if your parents pay for your insurance and you use it. This has happened to a friend of mine, her parents got the bill for a pregnancy test, and werent thrilled.
2006-09-28 12:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by Barbie K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you know that when a man pulls out the condom can fall of and he could c u m all over you? This could cause you to get pregnant. I would suggest using condoms, but not pullling out. Just my opinion. But as far as you being pregnant, I think if you are always concerened then you need to be on birth control. I am glad that you practice safe sex. I hope your period will arive sometime this month too though. You are suppost to have one about every 26-28 days!! I think you are fine, but if you areconcerened, you can get a pregnancy test at the $ store. YOu do not have to be of any age to purchase them. Good luck
2006-09-28 12:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're looking for symptoms to look for...
when my sister was pregnant, she first knew when she stand from squatting or sitting and be light headed. She also said that her boobs were very sore. And of course, with most pregnant women, the morning sickness - but I'm not sure what part of the first trimester that occurs.
as for the 'safest person' I would recommend going to the local health department and getting birth control just for some 'extra' protection.
2006-09-28 12:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is good that you are being responsible about it (the sex part). That is more than many people would do. If you absolutley HAVE to have sex, just continue to use protection. I would try to obtain some birth control too, just to be even more on the safe side. I am not condoning having underage sex by any means, but at least you are being safe. If you are worried about being pregant, go to Walmart and buy the $8 test. As far as UTIs, welcome to being a woman. Invest in some cranberry juice.
2006-09-28 12:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously your not the safest person because you do it in the first place.
sorry i dont know any pregnancy signs but i feel the need to say SOMETHING.....
You dont say your age, which is a good thing becuase there are alot of insane people out there, but i assume your under 18
Look i hope and pray your not pregnant, but i urge you to stop having sex. Believe me, once your holding that baby, you'll realize it was never worth the risk. Should you be pregnant dont wimp out and abort it, take responcibility for your actions and put it up for adoption like a somewhat responcible person would do.
Please be careful!
2006-09-28 12:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by Stupendous Man! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call "Family Planning", the number is in your telephone book. Get on some birth control. They'll pay for this. Be safe and continue to use a condom. Don't you hate worrying about this all the time. I would. Sex is great, but it is also the way to have a baby. Be safe!
2006-09-28 12:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by flower 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your issues are NOT an LOL matter. You're dealing with the possibility of a human life in your hands. One can NEVER be too careful under those circumstances. Do you really think that you're ready to become a mother, for a cupla minits of fun???
Speak to your parents about your behavior. They need to know. And you need to heed their advise, to save you from ruining your life!
2006-09-28 12:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be okay, you are using protection. Try getting on the pill so you can become regular. Don't worry, sometimes this is why a women misses her periods, stress. You will be fine. You sound like you are taking every precaution there is. Good job!
2006-09-28 12:43:08 · answer #11 · answered by pits_me1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋