Two of my friends only want to hang out with each other and whenever i invite one to hang out i have to invite the other or they will get mad. Recently they just stopped talking to me and they are ignoring me. WHAT SHOULD I DO??
2006-09-28 12:27:54 · 27 answers · asked by :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you can do one of three things.
1. Try planning a thing where the three of you are together and explain to them that you want to be friends with both of them and they need to quit cutting you out.
2. Find a new friend to make it four and you guys can trade off hanging out with each other.
3. Make new friends and hang out with them.
Either way it won't be hard, but i suggest you start to talk to new people and don't try so hard to hang out with them. They sound like they want to group you out already, so try to start hanging out with new people. The experience will be goo dfor you. In a few years you probably won't even talk to them anyways, because once high school and then college you really lose touch with most of the kids in your class. I know the hurt you are going through, but be strong and think positive they aren't having any fun without you. So go find a new friend and don't worry about those two. They don't deserve you as a friend anyhow! Good Luck and keep your chin up, you will get through this the world isn't ending and life is better in a couple days!
2006-09-28 13:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how this is. They are either way too tight with each other, or are afraid they will get ignored if you hang out with one and not the other. get some new friends and forget these ignorful b itches! or go up to them and b itch slap them until they apoloize, then find new friends.
2006-09-28 12:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are very young, have no social skills, and each want the other all to themselves...very childish...like not sharing play toys. You are old enough to get friends who value your thougths and company. You do not need the company of two little girls like this. Go out and get nice new friends...lots of them. You will be far happier. good luck
2006-09-28 12:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
did u make one of them angry?i used ignore my friend with this other girl but i now have realized that was a mistake because the other girl really didnt do anything wrong to me and now i feel really bad everytime i think about it but the girl i ignored is now the closest friend i have and the other girl annoys me so just do what my close friend did and just go along with it and dont act like you feel left out
2006-09-28 12:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should try talking to them and ask them if there's something you did to offend them.If you didn't and they just want to be mad at you,stop hanging out with them.If you did offend them and you apologize and they ignore you,leave them alone. Such people are not worthy to befriend unless they're of the same kind.
.....I hope this helps.
2006-09-28 12:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by sugababes360 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just tell them both how you feel then see how they react to what you say. If they still do what they are doing now then let them go cause "real" friends will listen to you and realize what they are doing is not right and try or at least make an effort to fix it.
2006-09-28 12:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should right them a note. about how yuo feeel. you need to let them know. real friends wont do that if they keeep doing that you need to decide, should i suffer and try to be freinds with rude pple or should i find some real friend s that will always be there for me? i think you will choose the right thing to do. good luck
2006-09-28 13:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by JKBabyBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they can't handle more than one friend at a time. Some people are like that. You need to make other friends. Good luck.
2006-09-28 12:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get new friends, sounds to me like they are using you as a "go between each other.
2006-09-28 12:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by sweetneesy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them and get some real friends.
2006-09-28 12:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by tko43078 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋