I ran into my best friends boyfriend at the bar. He was running her down and some other chick was hitting on him. I debated on telling her. I am obugated to tell her so i did. Now hes saying i am a liar and only trying to start **** and brake them up. Shes been my best friend for 10 years. I want nothing more for her to be happy and she deserves to know. If the shoes were changed she would tell me. Is it wrong for me to feel like **** now
2006-09-28 12:26:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She does believe me because we are as good as friends. Who knows what he will be saying to everyone else.
2006-09-29 05:48:36 · update #1
just do what is right
2006-09-28 12:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by jack jack 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look whether she believes u or not, u did the right thing by telling her. If you didn't and this guys later cheats and she finds out u new before hand, u will loose her forever. He now knows he's being watched by u and ur friend, he'll tend to walk more like on dry leaves.
Good for u, and I hope ur friend believed u !
2006-09-28 12:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh uhh... absolutely not!! Your right if the shoe was on the other foot she would tell you. You are only trying to protect her from a potentially hurt full situation. Plus what if he does end up cheating on her and brings something back to her bed that Ajax cant scrub off. You are a good friend. She will realize that eventually.
2006-09-28 12:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Virginia1228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying "if you stir in Sh*t it will stink". Sometimes people don't think of the consequences of telling things before they do it. However, had I been in your shoes I would have also told my BF b/c she would have been hurt if she ever found it out and knew you didn't tell her. So. sometimes the right thing will look wrong but in the end the truth will come out.
2006-09-28 12:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend what she would do if a boy was slagging you off and then play it by ear. She probably knows something is wrong already. None of this is your fault. You're just trying to be the best friend you can. It's his fault,so don't let him try and shift the blame onto you.good luck
2006-09-28 12:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing, I think friendship should come first, before boys. And I don't think you were trying to break them up either. I hope your best friend knows that. She will realize that your friendship will be around a lot longer than that creep.
2006-09-28 12:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anatasia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your best friend mad at you? Screw her boyfriend. You were just telling your Best Friend what you saw. It's not your fault. Don't feel like ****, He is in enough **** knowing he was caught. so don't worry =]]
2006-09-28 12:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by xoaligatoxo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You is doing what's right and feel like you know you don't want her to get hurt and then next thing you know she might not be able to trust another man again. But anyways don't listen to him if he screw up the best thing that ever happen to him.
2006-09-28 12:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by mickeymousegirl00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not ur fault only cuz she would tell u but if she didnt believe u then thats her stupidity u did ur part now u should leave it alone and let that go its all up to her now
2006-09-28 12:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by mia_janelle20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell her. it is her opinion that matters and not the fool's. if she is really your friend and you are as close as you say you are then she will believe you and run as fast as she can. if she shoots the messenger, just lay low and wait until she finds out for herself then you can be the good friend that you are, just make sure you dont say "I told you so" then.
2006-09-28 12:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She deserves to know what is going on with the bf. You should tell her all about it and it is up to her who she wants to believe.
2006-09-28 12:31:13 · answer #11 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋