My boyfriend never wants to use a condom, so i told him i was pregnant and he asked me not to keep the baby. but he still refuses to use a condom.
2006-09-28 12:22:48 · 22 answers · asked by jr 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well if he's not respecting your wants then he's selfish and you deserve better!!
2006-09-28 12:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Tell him he isn't getting any until he uses a condom. He is being very selfish. You do not want to get pregnant if he tells you to just get rid of the baby (even though you really weren't pregnant. Also telling him you are pregnant won't solve anything because usually that gives him more reason to have sex without a condom because you are already pregnant. If he can't respect that then he isn't worth it.
2006-09-28 12:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Megan W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you are pregnant then its your choice whether or not you want to keep your child. Also, if he doesnt want to use a condom then put ya cookies on lock and let him know that there will be no abortions and that condoms are the best be t in preventing pregnancy. But then again you could try bc pills just not ortho evra they seriously cause liver probs! Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-28 15:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to leave the boyfriend. He wants to have sex with you but not take care of the responsibility? Tell him that not using a condom is what cause you to be pregnant.
2006-09-28 12:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should have left a long time ago cause you need to let him know when u are ready not on his time or his descisions it should be condom or no sex cause u lying just for him to get plessure Do what you want
2006-09-28 12:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by MzNicoleJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you tell him...if he is a big enough man to handle is weiner then he needs to be a big enough man to take care of his responsibilities...and you tell him that he is not having sex with you again until he wears a condom and if he gets mad and breaks it off then wouldnt you rather know now that he was a shallow d.ick head? I know that isnt the answer you wanted but sometimes we need to hear that.
2006-09-28 12:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
condoms can be hard to get used to as they deaden sensation, but that's no excuse, tell him to use a condom or no more sex, or if he is still having problems, try other forms of birth control
2006-09-28 13:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by imanalchemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - joking about pregnancy isn't funny. Secondly - if he's not mature enough to use a condom then either make him or dump him. Protected sex if better for you and for him. Take care of yourself.
2006-09-28 12:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Starting a Journey 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dump him, keep your baby and sue his *** for child support. he sounds immature and irresponsible and he doesnt respect ur wishes. also, if you dont want to have sex with out a condom you dont have to. just tell him no and if he does it anyways hes raping you. and he will go to jail.
2006-09-28 12:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by jbarker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser! if he doesnt respect you just let him go, he should respect your decision, now he shown you how he really is, how is he gonna tell you not to keep the baby if supposedly it was his fault? he is a selfish person, let him go you deserve better.
2006-09-28 12:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by its_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? You shouldn't be engaging in intercourse outside of marriage. You didn't accept the responsibility of marriage and are being selfish and so is he.
2006-09-28 12:33:27 · answer #11 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋