there is this girl in my class. she NEVER EVER talks,but if she does it os to only answer the teacher but she says it so soft that i cant hear it and i sit next to her!. she smells, and always holds her shirt down and never looks at anybody. what is wrong with her?
2006-09-28 12:16:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
She is shy and has low self-esteem. What would be nice is for you to be nice to her.
2006-09-28 12:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by beckychr007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is being negected at home or maybe even abused. You should try to build a friendship with her and you may save her life, Be someone she can come to start out by sitting with her at lunchtime and take it from there.If you do not think you can do this i suggest letting a Guidance counselor know that you think she has some type of problem. Good Luck!
2006-09-28 19:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you did not say she smells good or bad..she is probalbly from a very poor family and all she wants to do is to get an education..she has no time to be social/nor the money..children have always been mean when it comes to someone being different...try to befriend her..she could also be someone who was stolen and worked to death or some young lady that is being abused..you will never know unless you try to be different than you are or your classmates..good luck..sounds like she needs a FRIEND
2006-09-28 19:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by clcschiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a shy girl she is hiding her talents
She might not like being there in school
She must be passing through a difficult time in her home
She could have been educated in a strict environment so she does not feel too confident to express herself
2006-09-28 19:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by spyblitz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be shy but odds are she has issues at home. This is when the teachers need to get involved and have her home checked out.I know it sounds like Big Brother is watching but sometimes these kids need help.Someone needs to care.
2006-09-30 21:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the damn gurl alone.. if she dont wanna talk leave it be.. did you think maybe something is wrong with her maybe some type disabilitie or maybe she was rapped.. or she might juss be affraid to speek because maybe she is a ffraid someone make fun of her..
the best things to do are to either ignore her like she dont exist or talk to her and try to make conversation and be a friend and if you hear someone talking about her be a friend and stand up for the damn gurll.. everyone neeeds friends..
2006-09-28 19:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by astrodog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a major issue with shyness for one reason or another, and is very insecure. Maybe she doesn't know she smells. Or maybe something bad is happening to her at home and she can't help it. Be compassionate and try to be nice to her, someday she may come out of it.
2006-09-28 19:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Introverted
2006-09-28 19:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by JAMES 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a prejudice....your word "wrong" gives you away.
Perhaps she's been "just a little girl" who was abused by any number of people in all of the wrong ways, then of course, beaten...
feel better now?
2006-09-28 19:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you are being very nice. Maybe she is really shy and with having to try to be friends with people like you who would blame her! Why not get your head out of your *** and try being nice it might actually make you and her feel good.
2006-09-28 19:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by natmys333 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
she is shy! and she smell for mulitable reasons! who knows she couldnt shower maybe she has a health problem some people can't stop the oder..
Good luck
Mad luv
try talking to her and making her feel wanted and accepted..
Mad luv
2006-09-28 19:19:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋