I have been talking to Jessica for 3 weeks already. I think she is really attractive. Yesterday, I have been caught staring at her. I know I probably made her feel uncomfortable. This week, she was rather avoiding me like when I went into the class, she still had her head up. Then when I took my seat, then she put her head down. and now today, she sat somewhere else today since someone took her seat. Is it right for me to sit next to her today? How do I start making her feel comfortable talking with me again? I really want a friendship with her.
2006-09-28 12:16:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
From what you've said I don't see that she necessarily is uncomfortable talking to you; there seems to be a lot of jumping to conclusions going on here!
Just...talk to her...maybe catch up with her on your way into or out of a class, make a comment about what you've just learned or are going to be learning, or ask her a question. See how she responds. If it's negatively don't take it personally, she may just have things on her mind or not be feeling too great: try again later.
Just be friendly like you are to anyone; just be yourself and don't get hung up on analysing everything to death!
2006-09-28 12:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by pompeii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch her after class.and tell that you didn't mean for to feel uncomfortable and you really want a friendship with her...Then if she still trys to avoid you i think you should just for get it but you should sit next to her anyway after you talk to her because you dont want to make her really angry..
2006-09-28 12:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lil D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you are sorry for staring at her. Just try to talk to her again.
2006-09-28 12:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your trying to force something people feel that force. Relax and be yourself and it will happen if it is meant to be.
2006-09-28 12:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋